yeex Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Not many because when women are out in public here, they are either with their boyfriend, or are talking on a cell phone, or are listening to an ipod. Kinda bad when you have to commit a crime to talk to someone, by assaulting them . Not many is going to = not many dates no matter what the excuse is.
meerkat stew Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I think you are making too much of this criminal/love letter from women phenomenon. The actual cause of the love letters is being seen by millions of people on television. If you set a bottle with a skull and crossbones on it in front of 300 million people. Some of them will swig that bottle right down without a second thought. I imagine -animals- that are on TV get love letters. Criminals who don't make it to television get 0 love letters from admiring women.
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Not many because when women are out in public here, they are either with their boyfriend, or are talking on a cell phone, or are listening to an ipod. Kinda bad when you have to commit a crime to talk to someone, by assaulting them . How do you expect to get a date when you defer to everyone as being above you and even ipods as being larger priorities than you? I understand not approaching a girl walking in a couple. The guy might not be her BF, but they are likely her focus either romantically or for business. And if someone is on the phone, they are busy but- I listen to an ipod too. When someone asks me something, I turn it off and see what they want. No reason for you to think someone won't do this. You only think they won't because you do not value yourself. I keep pointing this out but you never have anything to say about how your actions are so glaringly you biggest handicap.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 How do you expect to get a date when you defer to everyone as being above you and even ipods as being larger priorities than you? I understand not approaching a girl walking in a couple. The guy might not be her BF, but they are likely her focus either romantically or for business. And if someone is on the phone, they are busy but- I listen to an ipod too. When someone asks me something, I turn it off and see what they want. No reason for you to think someone won't do this. You only think they won't because you do not value yourself. I keep pointing this out but you never have anything to say about how your actions are so glaringly you biggest handicap. You do realize that assult is a civil offense and also can be a crime, right? How do you get the attention of someone with an ipod other than yanking the ear buds out of her ears? That is an assault. you can go to jail for it.
someotherguy Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Since you seem to have an inferiority complex, have you considered seeking the attention of women who have inferiority complexes? At least you'll have something in common! Maybe an ugly, deformed, or tremendously awkward girl would be extremely grateful to have your attention.
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 You do realize that assult is a civil offense and also can be a crime, right? How do you get the attention of someone with an ipod other than yanking the ear buds out of her ears? That is an assault. you can go to jail for it. You tap them on the shoulder or get in their line of sight and indicate you wish to ask them something. That is not assault and since you are talking about women out in public, you would have witnesses. You just look for every excuse to not face your panicky fear of approaching women.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Since you seem to have an inferiority complex, have you considered seeking the attention of women who have inferiority complexes? At least you'll have something in common! Maybe an ugly, deformed, or tremendously awkward girl would be extremely grateful to have your attention. You'd think, but doesn't work that way... Low self esteem women require constant attention from multiple sources, just from me wouldn't be enough.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 You tap them on the shoulder or get in their line of sight and indicate you wish to ask them something. That is not assault and since you are talking about women out in public, you would have witnesses. You just look for every excuse to not face your panicky fear of approaching women. Assault (or battery), battery in this case, is the intentional touching of another that would be considered by a reasonable person to be harmful or offensive contact. Touching someone, intentionally, even to get their attention, is a civil battery. It might not be enough for criminal.... But I know it's a tort if I do what you suggest, and it only requires that a reasonable person think that being touched is harmful or offensive, which it would be found to be.. Would they sue me? No, as the damages are zilch, but I'm just saying that I basically have to commit a tort to speak to someone these days?
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Assault (or battery), battery in this case, is the intentional touching of another that would be considered by a reasonable person to be harmful or offensive contact. Touching someone, intentionally, even to get their attention, is a civil battery. It might not be enough for criminal.... But I know it's a tort if I do what you suggest, and it only requires that a reasonable person think that being touched is harmful or offensive, which it would be found to be.. Would they sue me? No, as the damages are zilch, but I'm just saying that I basically have to commit a tort to speak to someone these days? This is horse crap and you know it. In no court room would the light tapping of a person's shoulder to ask a question be considered a crime. Especially with witnesses saying "Yeah, he just tapped her on the shoulder and she started freaking out". Avoidance tactics. And it is only even remotely discussed as a possible liability by lawyers looking to make money off of stupid law suits. Blame your chosen occupation for trying to make that into an incident rather than simple public interaction that happens all the time with zero problems among normal folk. It is a remote and unlikely thing to happen. You know it. You just like to whine and play the victim. Whining, playing the victim, acting like a you will be seen as a bother is not going to get you a date.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 This is horse crap and you know it. In no court room would the light tapping of a person's shoulder to ask a question be considered a crime. Especially with witnesses saying "Yeah, he just tapped her on the shoulder and she started freaking out". Avoidance tactics. And it is only even remotely discussed as a possible liability by lawyers looking to make money off of stupid law suits. Blame your chosen occupation for trying to make that into an incident rather than simple public interaction that happens all the time with zero problems among normal folk. It is a remote and unlikely thing to happen. You know it. You just like to whine and play the victim. Whining, playing the victim, acting like a you will be seen as a bother is not going to get you a date. It IS a battery though, regardless if you like it or not. And if the woman also saw me trying to touch her, that would also be an assault. Given that someone kicked me for brushing against them on the metro, you think that a reaction of tapping someone on the shoulder, to get them to remove their ear buds, to stop listening to what they were enjoying, to talk to someone they don't know, will be viewed in a favorable light?
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 It IS a battery though, regardless if you like it or not. And if the woman also saw me trying to touch her, that would also be an assault. Given that someone kicked me for brushing against them on the metro, you think that a reaction of tapping someone on the shoulder, to get them to remove their ear buds, to stop listening to what they were enjoying, to talk to someone they don't know, will be viewed in a favorable light? Dude, some witch screamed at me once because my coat sleeve brushed her umbrella. I told her it wasn't a big deal and her umbrella didn't cause me harm so she need not worry. She was so confused and didn't know what else to say. You will meet crazy folk sure, but it isn't because its you or your height or whatever you like to pretend. We all have to deal with the crazy folks and collectively give them the finger and move on. You get to stymie them with logic too. You need to stop giving a damn! Stop imagining a worst case scenario. Most folks on the train are so timid and easy to embarrass - taking control of the situation is a snap! I still will approach people if I need to and you should to. I feel like I should introduce you to my husband so he can help you get out of your shell a bit. Would you like this?
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Dude, some witch screamed at me once because my coat sleeve brushed her umbrella. I told her it wasn't a big deal and her umbrella didn't cause me harm so she need not worry. She was so confused and didn't know what else to say. You will meet crazy folk sure, but it isn't because its you or your height or whatever you like to pretend. We all have to deal with the crazy folks and collectively give them the finger and move on. You get to stymie them with logic too. You need to stop giving a damn! Stop imagining a worst case scenario. Most folks on the train are so timid and easy to embarrass - taking control of the situation is a snap! I still will approach people if I need to and you should to. I feel like I should introduce you to my husband so he can help you get out of your shell a bit. Would you like this? sure! You're in this area??
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 sure! You're in this area?? Yes. And he might already know you as he does internet securities of law firms. I'll speak with him once he gets home. If he is cool with it, I'll PM you his email.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Yes. And he might already know you as he does internet securities of law firms. I'll speak with him once he gets home. If he is cool with it, I'll PM you his email. Thanks........,,,,,,,.........
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 (edited) Betaman, I live in DC which means you live no more than 15 minutes from me. I have no problem whatsoever, talking to women I meet while out. The women around here are very friendly and don't mind chatting up a storm with anyone, provided you are not one of the many bums on the street. I routinely end up having long conversations on the metro with complete strangers, both men and women. Your problem is that you are boring...same **** everyday with you(and OpenGL and all the few others that constantly blame the women for their lack of success). The women are not the problem. They just don't want to be the mother to a whiny, lame baby. Grow up and stop sulking and crying about why no one likes you. Stop making excuses, I don't know how many times you have to hear it, but it's unattractive and it shows in everything, whether you think so or not. Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying to date altogether and go on about living your life...you'd probably be much more attractive to women if you just stepped back and built a life for someone to walk into. Edited January 22, 2010 by BackUpOrGetStung
Romance Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 My boyfriend is a nice guy. Nice guys just need to stay strong through dating those girls who just want to party and be not be faithful. There are a lot of girls like that but there are also a lot of nice girls who want a nice guy.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Betaman, I live in DC which means you live no more than 15 minutes from me. I have no problem whatsoever, talking to women I meet while out. The women around here are very friendly and don't mind chatting up a storm with anyone, provided you are not one of the many bums on the street. I routinely end up having long conversations on the metro with complete strangers, both men and women. Your problem is that you are boring...same **** everyday with you(and OpenGL and all the few others that constantly blame the women for their lack of success). The women are not the problem. They just don't want to be the mother to a whiny, lame baby. Grow up and stop sulking and crying about why no one likes you. Stop making excuses, I don't know how many times you have to hear it, but it's unattractive and it shows in everything, whether you think so or not. Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying to date altogether and go on about living your life...you'd probably be much more attractive to women if you just stepped back and built a life for someone to walk into. I'm 34, and am a professional, so I cannot go around committing crimes just to be the exciting guy that women want. if you need to have sex in public to be entertained, that's not really my problem.
torranceshipman Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Who is Dale Peterson? That man you keep talking about (I forget the name, probably got it wrong). The one you keep saying women can't resist....I think you like him
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I'm 34, and am a professional, so I cannot go around committing crimes just to be the exciting guy that women want. if you need to have sex in public to be entertained, that's not really my problem. Where in The Land of Broken Toys did you get anything about public sex or committing crimes in that post?!? His advise is the same advise everyone else has been giving you. Are you just mad because he lives in this city and doesn't share your views or have your problems? Come on man, don't be a hater.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Where in The Land of Broken Toys did you get anything about public sex or committing crimes in that post?!? His advise is the same advise everyone else has been giving you. Are you just mad because he lives in this city and doesn't share your views or have your problems? Come on man, don't be a hater. That's what women need for excitement, or they need relationship drama. it's not like I'm a boring person who sits around and does nothing all day. Tomorrow I'll either be skiing or hiking. Wednesday I went to a wizards game... That's not enough "entertainment" for women though.. They need more, like the risk of being caught having sex in public, or a guy who they suspect might be cheating, anything to provide some drama, and that's what I do not provide. Do you think I sit around and play WoW all weekend and all evening? Ironically, the guy I know who plays the most video games gets laid the most, becuaes he provides tons of drama and dumps women, constantly.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I am a professional too, so I can't go out committing crimes either, yet women still find me exciting. Remember when I said, "Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying to date altogether and go on about living your life...you'd probably be much more attractive to women if you just stepped back and built a life for someone to walk into." Allow me to rephrase...Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying altogether; you are adamant about being a loser, and seem happy to be quite good at it.
Author betamanlet Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 I am a professional too, so I can't go out committing crimes either, yet women still find me exciting. Remember when I said, "Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying to date altogether and go on about living your life...you'd probably be much more attractive to women if you just stepped back and built a life for someone to walk into." Allow me to rephrase...Now that I think about it, you should just stop trying altogether; you are adamant about being a loser, and seem happy to be quite good at it. I don't try much at all. I enjoy the lack of anxiety/stress in my life and don't look forward to that being a part of my life... What k ind of "excitement" do you provide?
meerkat stew Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 you are adamant about being a loser, and seem happy to be quite good at it. Yeah, and you are adamant about being an internet tough guy, getting off on calling men losers with no possibility of recourse, just as bad if not worse than anyone who complains about dating problems with women here. You aren't fooling anybody.
sally4sara Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 That's what women need for excitement, or they need relationship drama. it's not like I'm a boring person who sits around and does nothing all day. Tomorrow I'll either be skiing or hiking. Wednesday I went to a wizards game... That's not enough "entertainment" for women though.. They need more, like the risk of being caught having sex in public, or a guy who they suspect might be cheating, anything to provide some drama, and that's what I do not provide. Do you think I sit around and play WoW all weekend and all evening? Ironically, the guy I know who plays the most video games gets laid the most, becuaes he provides tons of drama and dumps women, constantly. Why make statements that you don't have enough knowledge of to accurately make? I've never had sex in public and the idea of it would be too distracting to enjoy - so NO it is not what women want or need. I loath drama. Teenagers and college kids of both genders want drama. So again - it is not what women want or need. These are just more of your excuses to not try because you're scared about approaching women.
Recommended Posts