MySweetie'sGone Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Sick...I feel sick to my stomach tonight. Wish i could hit fast forward to a year from now just to see where I will be. Healed? Happy? Completely over this pain? Back with my love..? With another? Alone? In another state/city? Will it ALL be worth it? How about you? Where do you imagine yourself??
bananaboat11 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 In your arms? Hun, I'm confident you'll be doing just fine. You'll be elsewhere... attending school and the next conversation we have you'll be telling me you're seeing someone steady and he's fantastic at pretty much everything, but he is taking it slow at your request... and is completely ok with it. Without being/sounding like a player... he knows what to say and when to say it... and he has the Bar exam coming up... you met him through school Clearly he's attractive.. you're with him, but also because he's smart, funny, sincere, caring... all those great qualities it's hard to find in a SINGLE man these days... most of the good ones are taken...
USMCHokie Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Rob, aren't you the f'in ladies' man... Heh. I have no idea what life will be like a year from now...and I try not to think about it or worry about it...live in the present and make it the best you can make it. Everything will work itself out in the end.
deux ex machina Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Sick...I feel sick to my stomach tonight. Wish i could hit fast forward to a year from now just to see where I will be. Healed? Happy? Completely over this pain? Back with my love..? With another? Alone? In another state/city? Will it ALL be worth it? How about you? Where do you imagine yourself?? It will all be worth it. I imagine myself really being free of it in a complete way. Also, I do think I will be stronger and wiser for it all. Without the drama this has caused, I think I will be able to achieve more and more. This is good.
4givrnt4gtr Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 In a year....that's be January 2011 (wow! crazy thought) I will have just turned 27, starting second semester of my doctoral program, in a gorgeous new city, with a bunch of new friends and outdoor activities. Happy. As. Punch. And I will be single God willing. Oh, and I will be living in a gorgeous one bedroom with my cat, and I will have a door to my bedroom (unlike my tiny little studio), and I will put out the cat in the livingroom when she doesnt let me sleep. And it will be surrounded by gorgeous redwoods and all kinds of trees because that area is full of gorgeous ginormous trees. Ohhhhhh the joy!!!!! SO tell us......what would your dream situation be???
bananaboat11 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Rob, aren't you the f'in ladies' man... Heh. I have no idea what life will be like a year from now...and I try not to think about it or worry about it...live in the present and make it the best you can make it. Everything will work itself out in the end. lol, sorry man. you'd never guess, but I used to be a confident, organized, smart, intelligent, attractive, amicable, congenial, sociable guy... ****ing psycho, abusive, manipulative, insecure, immature girls..
deux ex machina Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 lol, sorry man. you'd never guess, but I used to be a confident, organized, smart, intelligent, attractive, amicable, congenial, sociable guy... ****ing psycho, abusive, manipulative, insecure, immature girls.. I wonder if that would fit on a t-shirt.
bananaboat11 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I wonder if that would fit on a t-shirt. holy crap.. I just LOL'd in a coffee shop ...
USMCHokie Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 lol, sorry man. you'd never guess, but I used to be a confident, organized, smart, intelligent, attractive, amicable, congenial, sociable guy... ****ing psycho, abusive, manipulative, insecure, immature girls.. You still are. Don't let someone else define who you are. But you know this already.
deux ex machina Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 holy crap.. I just LOL'd in a coffee shop ... Ah. Well, my work here is done (I'm a part-time food service e-terrorist -- blasted economy).
Author MySweetie'sGone Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Why Rob...you're making me blush over here! lol. USM you're messing with the vibe! lol:lmao: My ideal situation? I will be hard at work in the second semester of the law school of my choice. With no time to worry about anything else. I will be filled with JOY...not happiness, but honest-to-goodness joy. Why joy? Because happiness is fleeting and contingent upon situations and often upon people. Joy comes from within and is constant. I will be filled with the lessons that this expired relationship and its aftermath have taught me...and I will be all the wiser. I will be equipped to make better decisions. In short...I will be in a better place. As far as relationships...I can't say and wouldn't dare to even project. Maybe I need to be alone (again *sigh*) for awhile. Maybe I was being held back by my relationship and know the opportunities are limitless. Maybe this is a temporary sitch...maybe...?? eh..But by then it probably won't even matter. 4giv I love your post!! Happy. As. Punch. And I will be single God willing. Oh, and I will be living in a gorgeous one bedroom with my cat, and I will have a door to my bedroom (unlike my tiny little studio), and I will put out the cat in the livingroom when she doesnt let me sleep. Ohhhhhh the joy!!!!! SO tell us......what would your dream situation be???
Author MySweetie'sGone Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 HA! deux love the t-shirt idea...maybe we should come up with our own line of IBTMX (I'm Better Than My Ex) clothing. I'm sure we could come up with some catchy phrases. That'd be funny...we'd make money off of our exes! Bet they'd come back then. :lmao::lmao::lmao:
bananaboat11 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 HA! deux love the t-shirt idea...maybe we should come up with our own line of IBTMX (I'm Better Than My Ex) clothing. I'm sure we could come up with some catchy phrases. That'd be funny...we'd make money off of our exes! Bet they'd come back then. :lmao::lmao::lmao: Hey, I want in! It's my quote
deux ex machina Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 HA! deux love the t-shirt idea...maybe we should come up with our own line of IBTMX (I'm Better Than My Ex) clothing. I'm sure we could come up with some catchy phrases. That'd be funny...we'd make money off of our exes! Bet they'd come back then. :lmao::lmao::lmao: Don't want him back. I'll buy one of those male real dolls instead. It would have more empathy and personality, and I already have a...well...neveryoumind. ---------- Hey, I want in! It's my quote Busted! Hide the designs!
Author MySweetie'sGone Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Lol. No worries banana...all are welcome to the enterprise. Deux...of course we wouldn't want them. We'd laugh in their faces and toss them a complimentary shirt that says "I shoulda had a V8"...b/c they clearly weren't clear minded when they left in the first place...needed a little nutrition to get their brain cells working :/
shopgirl7907 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Hmmm... in a year... Well, if you meant in a year from the breakup, that would be today. Bew!!! Honestly, I thought I'd be better off than I am now. I'm still heartbroken and still pining but maybe that would be different if we had less contact (I see or speak to him everyday - we have a child) or if I knew for sure that we were over for good. Everything is so wishy-washy and it's killing me. If you mean in a year form now... I will be 1 semester away from my Master's degree and hopefully buying a house!
bananaboat11 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Hmmm... in a year... Well, if you meant in a year from the breakup, that would be today. Bew!!! Honestly, I thought I'd be better off than I am now. I'm still heartbroken and still pining but maybe that would be different if we had less contact (I see or speak to him everyday - we have a child) or if I knew for sure that we were over for good. Everything is so wishy-washy and it's killing me. If you mean in a year form now... I will be 1 semester away from my Master's degree and hopefully buying a house! Congratulations! When I got my MS... holy crap.. my dad was crying tears of joy. now I'm going for my PhD... he told me, "good luck, kid... see you next decade"
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