SirTheeMan Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 I'll keep the details short and sweet : I like girl, girl likes me, we hang out in a Platonic sense. I find out she has a boyfriend. They brake up and a month or so later, we start to pick up and seems like us starting a relationship is inevitable. We disappear from each other due to exams, come back to find out she has returned to her boyfriend. In September or so, they brake up because he cheated on her and here we are today seemingly picking up where we left off before the exams. I want to ask her this to make sure that I am not just going to get burned again. "I really like you, and the last time this came up you ended up going back to your ex, which was fine. I respect that decision, but right now I just want to know, are things going to be the same as last time? I like you, but I don't want to be used" Is this fair question to ask? How would you ask it if you could?
Author SirTheeMan Posted January 21, 2010 Author Posted January 21, 2010 Your grammar is horrible. I wasn't aware this was a grammar competition.... Sorry Trainee of the Grammar Police.
sharkhunter Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 (edited) Is this fair question to ask? How would you ask it if you could? It's okay to ask. But she really cant give you an honest answer, because no knows the future. Personally, I would stay away from her. I myself refuse to play "second string" Edited January 21, 2010 by sharkhunter
sonicranger Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Your grammar is horrible. I agree. Based on your remark, you don't care yet you are in school for some reason...apparently not learning grammar skills is one of them. Anyway, I also agree with staying away. She will not tell you "I like you TOO!" and then proceed to give you some silly reason she went back to her ex. If you had an opportunity it was when she was broken up the first time and you two were hanging out more often. Good luck, with school and life.
boogieboy Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 How can someone in college writing papers screw up a simple word like Break? She is reeling from her break up. You will only be her rebound until she gets emotionally available again. She will use you, and you will get burned with her because she is freshly heartbroken. Stay away from her, you will get burned no matter what. Best thing for you to do is use her for a booty call and dont get attached to her. Use her like she would use you. She will keep going back and forth with her ex, and you will be her backup in the process, but she wont stay with you for long.
sharkhunter Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 c'mon boys, quit hammering this poor kid on his" grammar"
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