Lillypetal Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 I have been with my BF for a good 9 months and i do love him to bits. However he is so unreliable! The worst part is he will organise something and than be late or have an excuse why he cant be there. It is soo annoying and makes me so angry. I have told him about this and we have split up twice because of it. (by me) what im really asking is am i a push over... he says he will change but as they say actions speak louder than words!!! When it comes to important matters hes there. but when it comes to the little thing isnt and isnt it the little things that count?? for example last friday he felt sad that he hadnt seen me for a while so i offerd to meet him in town an hours journey on the bus for me and a 15min for him. I arrive at 11 just like i said. However that familiar text of " sorry i missed the bus" so ok im ok with that they run every 15 whats 15 mins ayy. 15 mins later im so sorry im going to get the my bus instead ( by this he means his parents companys bus so he doesnt have to pay) am i not worth 3 measly £ oh no hed rather wait 30mins later to save him some cash!!! But than he goes and contradicts this by buying me £90 worth of cloths and things. Which of corse makes me feel like im horrible. im fed up of feeling like he can make arrangements and i have to schedule everything around them for him than to not turn up!!! HELPP pleasee
boogieboy Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 (edited) He knows he wont have to change if you keep going back to him and taking the clothes he buys you. Think about that. Edited January 21, 2010 by boogieboy
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