Why women love black men

[singlelife]

well it's interesting to me that women and men still feel this way. but it's true. we just wanted to see what people would say but we definetly got great range of opinions. at least people are being honest

[Mr Fractal]

This has got to be one of the most inaccurate threads (with a few exceptions in posting) that I have ever read. It is unbelievable that some people still fall for that stereotypical crap in 2010.

 

 

I take it you are referring to the posters that said it's just a myth and that there are plenty of studies proving it's a myth as the correct posts. But notice they didn't post those studies, just say that those studies exist. But they don't exist, not doctored measured studies. I'm well studied in this and it's you and those posters who are incorrect. I'll prove the 'all races are the same' posters wrong if need be, but I'd rather just make this clarification.

Edited March 7, 2010 by Mr Fractal

[zebracolors]

Honestly I personally have never yet met a black man that I feel any romantic connection with.

[Mary3]

I have never ever been physically attracted to black men in my entire life.

 

But after dating different ethnicities ( except black ) I find HONESTLY that the white men are the BEST lovers,,

 

Why ?

 

Because they take 2 hours to munch on the salad bar..They love to kiss and cuddle and hold you....

 

I love the color of a white _______

 

I love the color of the male g----- down there .

[Mary3]

i dont know any women (except fat ones) that like black guys.

 

What I am going to say might sound racist but here goes : Black men want white women but can't get that many on their hooks so they take the over weight white women so they can taste the white ________.

 

Yes that does sound mean but I DO see alot of black men with big white women so its not like I pulled this one out of the air.

 

Let me clarify I have friends of all races and colors ( not racist ) ..I just don't want to sleep with a black man. Period.

[nowomanocry]

What I am going to say might sound racist but here goes : Black men want white women but can't get that many on their hooks so they take the over weight white women so they can taste the white ________.

 

Yes that does sound mean but I DO see alot of black men with big white women so its not like I pulled this one out of the air.

 

Let me clarify I have friends of all races and colors ( not racist ) ..I just don't want to sleep with a black man. Period.

 

Your personal observation does not make what you wrote above a fact...

On what statistics is your view based on? I would be very interested to know

 

That is the problem in most of the threads here... Lacking scientific evidence.

 

Thanks

[nowomanocry]

i dont know any women (except fat ones) that like black guys.

 

Lmao - why's that then?

[stillafool]

i dont know any women (except fat ones) that like black guys.

 

yeah, like Heidi Klum.

[stillafool]

Black guys are supposed to have better bodies and huge hogs which makes for better sex but not looked upon as a whole as good longterm partners..

 

 

Wow, I wonder what thousands of black women who have married good, hardworking black men, raised a family, and are now entertaining their grandchildren would say about your comment.

[stillafool]

Well when it comes to white women, when a white guy and a black guy have equal game, then the white guys going to win out.

 

BUT I have a couple of black friends from the ghetto who don't look or act like they're from the ghetto at all. In the black community "spittin game" is about as common as rolling a blunt. He learned how to spit game from watching his older brother do it. Basicly they're over confident, and blunt.

 

They're overconfident in the sence that they can get completely turned down and act like it never happened, doesn't damage there ego at all, they just move on to the next girl.

 

There bluntness makes it pretty easy for them to predict when a girl is a lost cause early on so they can move on to the next girl. There pickup lines are a good example of this. Here are a pickup line I've seen my black friends use and make it work.

 

(while in there car) "Hey get in"

 

I've also seen them ask "Who are you commin home with? Me?" in the middle of a conversation.

 

One of them is pretty vulgar, but he pulls way more girls than the rest. I've seen him say stuff like this.

 

"So do you like to suck dick"

 

It's really the fact that most black people are overconfident which is why they pull so many girls. NONE of them act cocky. Cocky is a big turnoff for girls. Overconfident is a big turnon.

 

 

I don't think this is so much "over confidence" as 'just not giving a sh-t!' When black guys want you for a relationship they can be just as sappy as anyone else. They are usually weaker around black women because they will call them on their sh-t right away.

[JustJoe]

That this thread exists, shows more than any of the opinions expressed , that racism is alive and well .

[Mary3]

Your personal observation does not make what you wrote above a fact...

On what statistics is your view based on? I would be very interested to know

 

That is the problem in most of the threads here... Lacking scientific evidence.

 

Thanks

 

What would you like me to do : Go up to the black/white couple , grab them by the arm and say NOW see you both dig eachother right ? , because I have to take this back to LS ! lol:lmao:

[Mary3]

That this thread exists, shows more than any of the opinions expressed , that racism is alive and well .

 

If I asked you to date a 75 year old women , would you ? If not , why not ? Because you don't prefer 75 year old women ?. If you ask me to date a black man and I won't , why is that ? Because I am not attracted to black men.

 

If I asked you to go out with a 350 lb. woman , would you ? Why not ? Because you are not attracted to obese women.

 

Racism runs MUCH deeper than the color of penis you choose. Its a personal choice.

If I asked you to help a 75 year old black women across the street , would you ? Of course you probrobly would. You don't want to have sex with her but you do want to protect her from traffic.

 

Please don't bring racism into sexual preference.

[singlelife]

Ok we all just got in from hanging out. Found out that the taboo is real. Some consider it a fetish but whatever you think. We watched 4 hot chicks practically chase black men around the bar. Way more obvious than the girls flirting with the white guys. I guess they just have to try it out. The things they say to the guys are provocative as well. Not your usual banter when picking up at the bars. They just put it out there that they want black action

[calizaggy]

Wow, I wonder what thousands of black women who have married good, hardworking black men, raised a family, and are now entertaining their grandchildren would say about your comment.

 

Actually black women would be the first to admit what the other poster was saying..Which is why you see so many black women working, while the men take off, or remain unemployed..

 

Actually think of our President.. His "daddy" had 8 kids with several different women, then always simply dissappeared..We do not live in the past, but the past is in us.. Check out African family structures then get back to me..

Edited March 16, 2010 by calizaggy

[calizaggy]

Most African societies practice polygamy, meaning the husband has several wives..

 

African farm work was done by hand, and it was the wives doing this work. The man was the "king " of sorts. In Europe this work was done by men, and the women stayed home to raise the children. The men "brought home the bacon."

 

So when men had several wives in Africa, they could not sleep with all of them, and this also meant many men did not have wives.. So it was common for single men to have sex with another man's wife out in the bushes, etc.. The husbands never knew which kids were actually theirs, so they had little attachment to these children.

 

How they live in the USA often times emulates this past behavior. The women working, sometimes 2 jobs, the African male either sitting home or simply gone. (70% illigetimacy rate)

[Silver_star]

A friend of mine and me both get lots of women. He is black and some of my friends who get no action always wonder how come he gets so much action. It's almost as if he doesn't even try. I have to give it to him he even gets hotter chicks than I do but I ain't a hater like my friends. As usual I just get on here and ask what's up with that. And fyi my friends aren't racist we are all cool they just see a pattern. And he wanted to see what everyone said as well.

 

im not sure why he gets so much action, maybe he comes off as really smooth, or sexy to women, maybe hes a player that gets alot of insecure girls because he knows how to feed their insecurities....but i doubt its color related, however there are some women who prefer black men for a variety of reasons. I find black men attractive, but I havent found any in particular thus far that I have clicked with. I am also a little bit intimidated of the "size" hype because I have seen porn, and I would be apprehensive if a man had a penis that large, in general. I guess not all black men are huge, but I dont know because thats what I see and hear, and I dont know otherwise. :S

[stillafool]

So when men had several wives in Africa, they could not sleep with all of them, and this also meant many men did not have wives.. So it was common for single men to have sex with another man's wife out in the bushes, etc.. The husbands never knew which kids were actually theirs, so they had little attachment to these children.

 

Well this must have come in handy for them when they were brought here and put into "slavery" and their master was sleeping with their wives, kids, daughters (or women) because they couldn't have wives. So all of masters "illigitimate kids" must not have presented a problem for them, huh?

 

How they live in the USA often times emulates this past behavior. The women working, sometimes 2 jobs, the African male either sitting home or simply gone. (70% illigetimacy rate)

 

 

You obviously don't know many black men or you would know that there are some incredible fathers and husbands of this race. I feel sorry for them that someone say such a thing about them.

[rebeccajones]

I have fantasies about black men, yes because it's taboo and I imagine the different colors of skin tone and it's cool and I imagine a huge one. Sexually I fantasize about black men, but I don't know if I'd seriously date one. I would if I were attracted but for some reason I am not. I think they are easy, because I have curly hair and they all seem to be attracted to me. Not all of course and I'm sure I could be attracted, but the majority I see around just seem easy. I feel like black men love light skinned women or something especially ones with curly hair.

[MeganDoll]

I never was with a black Men till oen night i met this gorgeous dark black guy in a bar went home with him and he literally rocked my world.His size was painful yet amazing,the idea of giving yoursefl and beign submitted to a black Man is a feelling like no other as thid big mandingo warrior has you with one arm in the air doing with you what eh pelases

 

Theyre sexy,theyre naturally the strongest race of Men,they have the most charisma and personaloty,they are the most feared and can prtoect you the best

[mrkleen]

I never was with a black Men till oen night i met this gorgeous dark black guy in a bar went home with him and he literally rocked my world.His size was painful yet amazing,the idea of giving yoursefl and beign submitted to a black Man is a feelling like no other as thid big mandingo warrior has you with one arm in the air doing with you what eh pelases

 

Theyre sexy,theyre naturally the strongest race of Men,they have the most charisma and personaloty,they are the most feared and can prtoect you the best

 

The strongest race? Mandingo warrior?

 

Now that is some funny stuff right there.

[stillafool]

I never was with a black Men till oen night i met this gorgeous dark black guy in a bar went home with him and he literally rocked my world.His size was painful yet amazing,the idea of giving yoursefl and beign submitted to a black Man is a feelling like no other as thid big mandingo warrior has you with one arm in the air doing with you what eh pelases

 

Theyre sexy,theyre naturally the strongest race of Men,they have the most charisma and personaloty,they are the most feared and can prtoect you the best

 

Wow Megandoll, you must have been in a heavy fantasy state when you wrote your post, because you had so many misspelled words. Hey, I do the same thing when I'm in a hurry; but it is funny.

[stillafool]

I have fantasies about black men, yes because it's taboo and I imagine the different colors of skin tone and it's cool and I imagine a huge one. Sexually I fantasize about black men, but I don't know if I'd seriously date one. I would if I were attracted but for some reason I am not. I think they are easy, because I have curly hair and they all seem to be attracted to me. Not all of course and I'm sure I could be attracted, but the majority I see around just seem easy. I feel like black men love light skinned women or something especially ones with curly hair.

 

Your name sounds black.

[calizaggy]

 

 

Well this must have come in handy for them when they were brought here and put into "slavery" and their master was sleeping with their wives, kids, daughters (or women) because they couldn't have wives. So all of masters "illigitimate kids" must not have presented a problem for them, huh?

 

 

 

You obviously don't know many black men or you would know that there are some incredible fathers and husbands of this race. I feel sorry for them that someone say such a thing about them.

 

 

They were put into slavery well before they came to the states.. Africa still practices slavery today.

 

I do know that there is "outlier" behavior in all situations.. Some women are also attracted to midgets.. That would be outlier behavior..I would not be wrong for saying most women like taller men simply because a few women like midgets..

 

The stats speak for themselves, unless of course you disagree with them, then they are ignored.

[sagetalk]

I never was with a black Men till oen night i met this gorgeous dark black guy in a bar went home with him and he literally rocked my world.His size was painful yet amazing,the idea of giving yoursefl and beign submitted to a black Man is a feelling like no other as thid big mandingo warrior has you with one arm in the air doing with you what eh pelases

 

Theyre sexy,theyre naturally the strongest race of Men,they have the most charisma and personaloty,they are the most feared and can prtoect you the best

 

Sounds like you bought the BS he was selling hook line and sinker . Best warriors and strongest race, now that's a riot. I think the Greeks, Romans, English, Vikings, Highlanders, Huns, Russians, Mongols, Samurai, Goths, and a horde of others would have a good chuckle over that one.

 

Best talkers and fastest, now you might have something there.