Why women love black men

[Woggle]

There are plenty of white people who are lazy criminals. To me it seems unfair that even though every race has less than desirable people black people are judged by their worst element. There are housing projects in Europe that are mostly white and just as dangerous and crime ridden as the housing projects you find in American inner cities.

[OpenGL]

There are plenty of white people who are lazy criminals. To me it seems unfair that even though every race has less than desirable people black people are judged by their worst element. There are housing projects in Europe that are mostly white and just as dangerous and crime ridden as the housing projects you find in American inner cities.

 

Yep, I agree, but life's not fair. I would know since I got the short end of the stick in every possible way imaginable.

[Johnny M]

There are plenty of white people who are lazy criminals. To me it seems unfair that even though every race has less than desirable people black people are judged by their worst element. There are housing projects in Europe that are mostly white and just as dangerous and crime ridden as the housing projects you find in American inner cities.

Actually, most housing projects in Europe are not white. If you are thinking of housing projects in places like London, Paris, and Amsterdam, they are most definitely not white.

 

Sure, there are lazy criminals of every race, but it's a fact that in North America, they are disproportionately black. We can debate the causes of this forever, but the fact remains. Although you are right, it's not fair to the honest, hard-working black guys.

[Woggle]

Yep, I agree, but life's not fair. I would know since I got the short end of the stick in every possible way imaginable.

 

I can't relate to what it is like to be black but I have often wondered why the universe hated but it turned around and it will turn around for you. Some people peek early in life and some people like me and hopefully you will do better as the years go on.

[sagetalk]

In my first post I did say I don't find many white men attractive anymore. That does not suggest in any way that I only date black men. To rule out dating someone based upon the color of their skin would be racist I think.

 

It was the second part of your quote that was most troubling, you dwelt on the first part.

 

Ok, then say that white men are just as cool, confident, and treat women as good as black men. It is the man and not the color of his skin that dictate these things. After that, I'll believe that you are not a white guy hater. If you won't say it, then what more needs to be said?

[sagetalk]

Well it is a breath of fresh air to hear someone on this thread post their personal preference instead of determining who and what someone is by the color of their skin.

 

I know, you did it in this thread too.

[DiscoChick]

Yep, I agree, but life's not fair. I would know since I got the short end of the stick in every possible way imaginable.

 

 

*hugs* well, I'm not just being creepy. I've noticed your posts. You seem as if you could use a hug.

[SOLACEMENT]

Why is this even being discussed...no (good) answers would ever come out of a question like this...The question was so out there to begin with .. it makes no sense!

 

Who the hell cares... life would go on..Its not "why women love black men".. it is why don't you have no luck with women.

[DMoon]

The penis length issue has been totally debunked in several studies, so there's no reason to spend time on that. Google it if you actually give a damn.

 

But as to the more substantive issue of whether women in the main DO prefer black men, let's ditch the stereotypes and look and think about the demographics. I'll confine my observations to the US because, well, that's where I and most of the peanut gallery reside.

 

In 2008, there were about 286,000 White-Female/Black-Male marriages in the US, and 117,000 Black-F/White-M marriages in the US. This is not a favorable statistic to black men. Examined closely, particularly in light of other demographic data, it reveals a weak negotiating position in romance. For instance,...

 

IOW, this business about whitey having it bad compared to his brothers is (as per usual), hokum. Women tend to discriminate in favor of white men against black men.

 

Mostly Correct. Dating and Marriage stats start to diverge pretty widely and overwhelmingly White men are favored over all other men—thus I don’t’ understand the hate speech and irresponsible, antiquated stereotypes directed at Black men and the visceral gag factor that keeps being perpetuated on this thread that Black men are Mandingo inferior savages and the women who love them are the lowest of the low.

 

The stats pretty much back up the salient fact that White men have a decided advantage in dating and marriage. They are, in general, the first pick by White women, Asian and Hispanic women. So this query on the victimization of White men by Black men who have some secret magic mojo that impacts their dating difficulties--is totally delusional.

[citygal1]

People are allowed to date whomever they want. But if a man didn't want to date me because of the race of my previous sex partners. Then I wouldn't want to date that person anyways.

[singlelife]

Ok from talking to some of my friends womenthey have said the following and remember these are general not every single thing applys to every white man:

 

After being with a black man they just cannot mentally go there with a white man. Not so much physically.

 

White men tend to be more lazy in bed and the relationship over all. And this not only leaves women unsatisfied but it messes with thier self esteem when they are treated like they are not even worth a white mans time (thats how we come off to them)

 

White men are selfish as they want to mostly get their way and not consider what the other person wants.

 

After being with a black man they feel like they are treated like a queen and they cannot deal with being disrespected by a white man once they start to feel good about themselves.

 

Even though I get a lot of women I am going to take this into consideration so I can get some more.

[BG1985]

That's so not true. These women don't know why they actually prefer black men over white men, but it certainly isn't because black men treat their women so much better. I've seen so many white men treat their women likes queens only to be kicked to the curb. I've seen so many black men treat women like dirt, but the women keep coming back for more. It goes both ways. I think it's just a matter of these girls' being more attracted to black men, therefore anything good the black man does for her, it's magnified by the attraction.

[singlelife]

i would lik to here what any women have to say.

[PJKino]

Everyone cam have prefercnes but lol at some white women generalizing saying black men treat women like queens and all white Men treat women like crap as if Black Men are never known for being misogynstic:laugh:

[TheLoneSock]

Lol this whole thread is just troll bait. The OP is merely trying to start a fuss, issuing backhanded and veiled insults at one group of people by posing as someone with a genuine question. Anyone with half a brain can see right through it. How anyone could have taken him seriously is BEYOND me.

[Normalguy]

Well when it comes to white women, when a white guy and a black guy have equal game, then the white guys going to win out.

 

BUT I have a couple of black friends from the ghetto who don't look or act like they're from the ghetto at all. In the black community "spittin game" is about as common as rolling a blunt. He learned how to spit game from watching his older brother do it. Basicly they're over confident, and blunt.

 

They're overconfident in the sence that they can get completely turned down and act like it never happened, doesn't damage there ego at all, they just move on to the next girl.

 

There bluntness makes it pretty easy for them to predict when a girl is a lost cause early on so they can move on to the next girl. There pickup lines are a good example of this. Here are a pickup line I've seen my black friends use and make it work.

 

(while in there car) "Hey get in"

 

I've also seen them ask "Who are you commin home with? Me?" in the middle of a conversation.

 

One of them is pretty vulgar, but he pulls way more girls than the rest. I've seen him say stuff like this.

 

"So do you like to suck dick"

 

It's really the fact that most black people are overconfident which is why they pull so many girls. NONE of them act cocky. Cocky is a big turnoff for girls. Overconfident is a big turnon.

[singlelife]

wow. well me and my friends ( by the way we have no racial tension in our group unlike some of you guys) have been talking to some of out female friends and this include white women who do and don't date black men and have found out the follow as a general and not for every woman:

 

1. Women are conditioned to be attracted to white men because they are higher on the social latter ( myself included). We are paid more than women and other nationalities which leads to security. All women want security so they are naturally going to mate and date white men first.

2.There are a lot of white women who fantasize about sleeping with a black man. They would never date him like others do, but if they had a chance to have sex with noone finding out they would do it. It's all about the taboo for them as they are still even in todays times not supposed to have a black man. And of course people want what they cannot have. So even if they are not attracted to them normally the taboo of it is what maks it so hot of a fantasy. Like not staying out past 10p and you just have to come home at 1a. The animal in us humans takes over. It's natural.

3. And this is the one that makes me glad i am a bachelor right now- Even if a woman is in a relationship if the taboo is put in her face too much then she will want it more and she may not seek it out but if a situation happens to come about like if they are on the road or if she is out and knows it won't be found out then she will do it. It was explained to me that it has nothing to do with love for their mate but just the taboo of it. It would be the same if they weren't supposed to smoke they would smoke in secret.

4. Since black men are genrally the 1# option for lust, sex, fantasy it was reiterated over and over that white men are the 1# option for relationships. So they articulated that a white man can have a gf anytme under any circumstance really ( yay ) so even if a woman breaks up with a white man every week of the month if he wanted he could have another gf within days if he chose.

 

So this was interesting to me but it is open to discussion. I would like to here from more women and of course guys as well.

[BG1985]

So black men are a fetish like Asian women?

[cashew]

So black men are a fetish like Asian women?

 

In many cases, yes.

[singlelife]

My friend just asked me to check the post. The girls are interested in what people have to say too

[Chicago_Guy]

My friend just asked me to check the post. The girls are interested in what people have to say too

 

Singlelife, why do you keep reviving this thread - are you just a troll? I swear that half of the 198 posts on this thread are from you.

[singlelife]

because i have the right to know like everyone else. and no it ain't me. sorry. if ya don't like it don't read it.

[calizaggy]

i dont know any women (except fat ones) that like black guys.

[PJKino]

wow. well me and my friends ( by the way we have no racial tension in our group unlike some of you guys) have been talking to some of out female friends and this include white women who do and don't date black men and have found out the follow as a general and not for every woman:

 

1. Women are conditioned to be attracted to white men because they are higher on the social latter ( myself included). We are paid more than women and other nationalities which leads to security. All women want security so they are naturally going to mate and date white men first.

2.There are a lot of white women who fantasize about sleeping with a black man. They would never date him like others do, but if they had a chance to have sex with noone finding out they would do it. It's all about the taboo for them as they are still even in todays times not supposed to have a black man. And of course people want what they cannot have. So even if they are not attracted to them normally the taboo of it is what maks it so hot of a fantasy. Like not staying out past 10p and you just have to come home at 1a. The animal in us humans takes over. It's natural.

3. And this is the one that makes me glad i am a bachelor right now- Even if a woman is in a relationship if the taboo is put in her face too much then she will want it more and she may not seek it out but if a situation happens to come about like if they are on the road or if she is out and knows it won't be found out then she will do it. It was explained to me that it has nothing to do with love for their mate but just the taboo of it. It would be the same if they weren't supposed to smoke they would smoke in secret.

4. Since black men are genrally the 1# option for lust, sex, fantasy it was reiterated over and over that white men are the 1# option for relationships. So they articulated that a white man can have a gf anytme under any circumstance really ( yay ) so even if a woman breaks up with a white man every week of the month if he wanted he could have another gf within days if he chose.

 

So this was interesting to me but it is open to discussion. I would like to here from more women and of course guys as well.

 

Yeah allot of white women look at black guys as a taboo fantasy type thing..

 

Black guys are supposed to have better bodies and huge hogs which makes for better sex but not looked upon as a whole as good longterm partners..

[bentnotbroken]

This has got to be one of the most inaccurate threads (with a few exceptions in posting) that I have ever read. It is unbelievable that some people still fall for that stereotypical crap in 2010.

Edited February 5, 2010 by bentnotbroken