Why women love black men

[BackUpOrGetStung]

Stillafool:That's rude as he]]!!!! How do you feel about black women who consider you a weaker black man because you date white women?

 

What's rude about it, it's just my honest feelings..icing on the cake?

 

As for black women who consider me weaker, I really don't care about their

opinion, or even acknowledge their existence. I've dated, and will continue to date, women of many races(black, white, asian, latina, so far), and if they have a problem, that's for them to deal with, not me. I date women who are receptive to me, and many black women are not, and the ones that are, I date. Many black women in this area, date white men exclusively, and I don't look down on them. It would be nice to get the same respect, but I'm not losing a wink of sleep over it. What's your opinion on the whole situation?

[Skump]

Wow, this thread is something else. It's like a bullsh*t gumbolaya.

 

Anyone remember that commercial where one coworker tells another that he's wrong - about everything? "We get fringe benefits, not french benefits." Etc.

 

Well, this thread is coworker B.

 

The penis length issue has been totally debunked in several studies, so there's no reason to spend time on that. Google it if you actually give a damn.

 

But as to the more substantive issue of whether women in the main DO prefer black men, let's ditch the stereotypes and look and think about the demographics. I'll confine my observations to the US because, well, that's where I and most of the peanut gallery reside.

 

In 2008, there were about 286,000 White-Female/Black-Male marriages in the US, and 117,000 Black-F/White-M marriages in the US. This is not a favorable statistic to black men. Examined closely, particularly in light of other demographic data, it reveals a weak negotiating position in romance. For instance, marriages involving a black man have a higher incidence of divorce as compared to those involving a white guy and... a woman of any other ethnicity. Relationship stability rates in interracial relationships involving white men are roughly the same as White-Male/White-Female relationships. But change "White-Male" to "Black-Male" or, notably, "Asian-Male," and the viability of the interracial union plummets.

 

IOW, this business about whitey having it bad compared to his brothers is (as per usual), hokum. Women tend to discriminate in favor of white men against black men.

[stillafool]

She might date a white guy at some point in the future and may casually mention whom she dated in the past and will be shocked when the guy breaks off all contact with her.

 

 

Yeah, why do white guys break up with women when they find out they have dated a black guy?

[stillafool]

Stillafool:That's rude as he]]!!!! How do you feel about black women who consider you a weaker black man because you date white women?

 

What's rude about it, it's just my honest feelings..icing on the cake?

 

As for black women who consider me weaker, I really don't care about their

opinion, or even acknowledge their existence. I've dated, and will continue to date, women of many races(black, white, asian, latina, so far), and if they have a problem, that's for them to deal with, not me. I date women who are receptive to me, and many black women are not, and the ones that are, I date. Many black women in this area, date white men exclusively, and I don't look down on them. It would be nice to get the same respect, but I'm not losing a wink of sleep over it. What's your opinion on the whole situation?

 

I don't have an opinion on who you chose to date. Best of luck on whomever you have sex with.

[stillafool]

I have a friend who's girlfriend at times resents him because he didn't go to college. He still doesn't know what he wants to do, and doesn't want to blow tons of money on college. Ludicrous isn't it?

 

And, I have several gfs whose bfs hate it that they didn't go to college and they feel the same way. One of them is going to break up over this.

[silic0ntoad]

This whole thread seems like a loaded question.

 

People like other people.

 

People who date one race exclusively are close minded morons.

 

Nuff said.

[Clep]

Yeah, why do white guys break up with women when they find out they have dated a black guy?

 

I had a guy I was dating in the past ask me if I have ever slept with a black man. At the time I had never and told him so. He let me know if I had he could not date me. I simply let him know that no....he couldn't date me as the way he thinks is much too different than the way I think, and I moved on. I couldn't imagine ruling out a life partner because they had a partner of a different race. To me that screams racism.

[Green]

This thread is silly. Your black friend just happens to be smooth with women. I have seen plenty of black guys who are not smooth with women.

 

There are black losers and white losers. Personaly I find white women more attractive, but I am dating a white girl. If I was dating a black girl I would probably say I find black girls most attracive.

[stillafool]

I had a guy I was dating in the past ask me if I have ever slept with a black man. At the time I had never and told him so. He let me know if I had he could not date me. I simply let him know that no....he couldn't date me as the way he thinks is much too different than the way I think, and I moved on. I couldn't imagine ruling out a life partner because they had a partner of a different race. To me that screams racism.

 

 

I know. White women don't give white guys are hard time because they may have once dated a black girl. I think it is terribly racist.

[Johnny M]

Yeah, why do white guys break up with women when they find out they have dated a black guy?

Ever heard the expression "once you go black, we don't want you back"? It's true.

[stillafool]

Ever heard the expression "once you go black, we don't want you back"? It's true.

 

 

Yes, but why?

[Sweetie1977]

Allot of girls i know were always interested about the "myth" about black guys and wanted to try something different

 

Plus some feel black guys have more natural charisma and personality and are just more fun to be around then stuffy white guys

[DiscoChick]

Ever heard the expression "once you go black, we don't want you back"? It's true.

 

:lmao: Brilliant.

 

You know, I realize that I am in a different generation from that of my parents, but WOW. My uncle thinks it is so important to date within the African American race. I don't know if he noticed, but around here, most of them have too many kids, sell drugs, have been to jail, don't have a job/education, or are just genuinely not interested in me [feeling is mutual]. I cannot be in a relationship with someone I have nothing in common with. I don't care what race he is.

[Simon Attwood]

Yeah, why do white guys break up with women when they find out they have dated a black guy?

 

 

Well that's a silly question; the woman is infected with black and the white guy is terrified he might catch black too.

 

Can you imagine the terror of waking up one morning and looking at yourself in a mirror and just as you are about to brush your teeth you notice with horror that you have a gold tooth?

 

Or looking out the curtains at your drive and seeing a pimp mobile in your drive and suddenly remembering that you traded in your Volvo for a low ride black BMW with chrome wheels?

 

Or waking up in the middle of the night for a pee after having sex with her, and putting your hand in your shorts and finding a monster cock?

 

What a terrifying prospect it is to sleep with a woman after she's been with a black man ....

[Clep]

Well that's a silly question; the woman is infected with black and the white guy is terrified he might catch black too.

 

Can you imagine the terror of waking up one morning and looking at yourself in a mirror and just as you are about to brush your teeth you notice with horror that you have a gold tooth?

 

Or looking out the curtains at your drive and seeing a pimp mobile in your drive and suddenly remembering that you traded in your Volvo for a low ride black BMW with chrome wheels?

 

Or waking up in the middle of the night for a pee after having sex with her, and putting your hand in your shorts and finding a monster cock?

 

What a terrifying prospect it is to sleep with a woman after she's been with a black man ....

 

Ahaha. Thanks for the laugh. This post shows how ridiculous this way of thinking is.

[meerkat stew]

@ simon and clep, I dated a woman once who had a "clapper" installed on her bedside lamp. Sure enough, she gave me the clap.

[Johnny M]

Yes, but why?

Two reasons:

 

1) It is usually a certain type of white girl that is attracted to black men (the kind of girl most men would not consider long-term dating material);

 

2) The very concept of interracial sex between whites and blacks is revolting. It's hard hard to explain....there's just something very dirty about it (in an "ewwww" rater than "hot" kind of way).

 

Personally, I just can't help losing whatever respect I may have had for a woman if I find out that she's dating interracially. I know that the resident PC crew will accuse me of being racist, but I really don't think I am. I don't view the white race as superior, nor do I treat people differently because they are of a different race. However, when it comes to intimate relationships between people of different races (especially whites and blacks), I just find it disgusting.

[Clep]

Two reasons:

 

1) It is usually a certain type of white girl that is attracted to black men (the kind of girl most men would not consider long-term dating material);

 

2) The very concept of interracial sex between whites and blacks is revolting. It's hard hard to explain....there's just something very dirty about it (in an "ewwww" rater than "hot" kind of way).

 

Personally, I just can't help losing whatever respect I may have had for a woman if I find out that she's dating interracially. I know that the resident PC crew will accuse me of being racist, but I really don't think I am. I don't view the white race as superior, nor do I treat people differently because they are of a different race. However, when it comes to intimate relationships between people of different races (especially whites and blacks), I just find it disgusting.

 

 

 

My relationships are long term, I am a woman with strong values and boundaries. I am independent, loyal to my family, man, myself and a dedicated mother. so your statement number one is ridiculous

 

I can't think of anyone that is racist who thinks they are. You are entitled to you own belief systems and views.

 

Interesting that you say you don't treat others differently because they are of another race but you will treat someone of your own race differently because they have slept with someone of another race.

[LadyRLD]

As a black woman I have not ever came across a black man that fits the stereotype of being well endowed. I'm still looking. Its like a white woman dates the first black guy and conviently gets the one with the biggest dyck. I'm thinking what is average to a black woman must be huge to a white woman (if shes only been with white men previously)

 

I agree. I am black woman and I have been with a few black men that were so small it wasn't even funny. One of them went out with a white girl after me and she was bragging about how well endowed he was and I was like I mean he was small like 4 inches.

 

I have been with some white men too and they are just as endowed as an endowed black men. And there are black men that are very small. Not saying I have been around the block but it is a myth that all black men are bigger. The only people that seem to think this are women of other races. Maybe they know it's small but they are trying to justify dating a black man by saying he's huge. IDK. But don't believe every woman who says that.

[Johnny M]

I can't think of anyone that is racist who thinks they are. You are entitled to you own belief systems and views.

And I can't think of anyone who is disloyal and a bad mother who thinks she is

 

Interesting that you say you don't treat others differently because they are of another race but you will treat someone of your own race differently because they have slept with someone of another race.

We all have our preferences, don't we? It's my preference to avoid people that repulse me.

[LadyRLD]

Not even a hard working blue collar guy could get your fancy?...

Some of us guys that make money via hard, brute force still exist.

 

For that, I am not saying anything about your avatar..... and it was something good.

 

I love blue collar men!!! They don't mind using their hands and getting dirty if they have to but most importantly they can make as much or even more money than white collar BA/BS men. So I don't discriminate as long as he can take care of himself legally. College education does not mean smarter. Met a lot of dumb college educated men. Met a lot of smart blue collar men. And vice versa. Can never judge a book by it's cover.

[Clep]

And I can't think of anyone who is disloyal and a bad mother who thinks she is

 

 

We all have our preferences, don't we? It's my preference to avoid people that repulse me.

 

And with that attitude I'm sure that you won't have to avoid many as they will be avoiding you.

[Clep]

And I can't think of anyone who is disloyal and a bad mother who thinks she is

 

 

We all have our preferences, don't we? It's my preference to avoid people that repulse me.

 

And with that attitude I'm sure that you won't have to avoid many that repulse you, as they will be avoiding you. You could be missing out on someone wonderful.

[Johnny M]

And with that attitude I'm sure that you won't have to avoid many that repulse you, as they will be avoiding you.

Unfortunately, that's not always the case. I've met women who appeared overtly racist and made disparaging remarks about blacks only to later find out that these same women had slept with black men. It's like they treat this aspect of their life as their dirty little secret.

 

You could be missing out on someone wonderful.

I very much doubt it.

[Woggle]

I couldn't care less what the race of a women's exes are. It matters kind of men they are and does she have a pattern of being attracted to unhealthy relationships.