Why women love black men

[sagetalk]

I think it is because they are very laid back, enjoy themselves, are confident, cool and know how to have a good time. The black guys I know treat their women well too.

 

And white guys aren't all these things and don't treat women as good or better . You're just saying this because your boyfriend is black. If you date a white guy next year you'll say the exact opposite.

[Ruby Slippers]

And white guys aren't all these things and don't treat women as good or better . You're just saying this because your boyfriend is black. If you date a white guy next year you'll say the exact opposite.

No, there is truth to what she said, and you see it echoed many times throughout this thread. It's true. I don't know why it is, but most of the black men who have flirted with me have exuded this cool, collected confidence. They're at ease with themselves, yet clearly communicate their attraction to you with a lot of warmth. Also, they do not make the mistake of being stingy with the affection and physical touch that uptight white guys do. Maybe that's their "game", but whatever it is, it's very attractive.

[Clep]

Well its horrible to say this, but youll find that the higher the concentration of blacks the lower their status on the flesh market

 

In European countries theyre treated like prize delicacies, but in Latin America every woman dreams of a blonde white boy

 

You live in Canada...

 

hahaha. I do live in Canada. There are black guys everywhere here. I think you are very correct horrible to say or not.

[Woggle]

Black men just like any other men are a diverse bunch that don't just fit into one box. There are many different types of black men just like any other race. My black friends deal with the same woman drama as my white friends or my latin friends or my asian friends. Women are also attracted to scumbags regardless of the race. Charlie Sheen could go out and get his pick of women despite the fact that he held a knife to his wife's throat while most black scientists probably struggle finding love.

[OpenGL]

Black men just like any other men are a diverse bunch that don't just fit into one box. There are many different types of black men just like any other race. My black friends deal with the same woman drama as my white friends or my latin friends or my asian friends. Women are also attracted to scumbags regardless of the race. Charlie Sheen could go out and get his pick of women despite the fact that he held a knife to his wife's throat while most black scientists probably struggle finding love.

 

Pretty much. Best post in this thread and the most accurate.

[Clep]

And white guys aren't all these things and don't treat women as good or better . You're just saying this because your boyfriend is black. If you date a white guy next year you'll say the exact opposite.

 

The only black guys I know or deal with are my boyfriends friends. I can't say if it is because they are black or because he chooses friends that are respectful to women.

 

Your statement in bold is not a very educated statement. You are suggesting I lack objectivity as a person, and are actually suggesting that would be evident if I was to date a white guy. I do not feel you have enough information about my character to be able to make that kind of assumption.

[Tayla]

For my grand finale I will solve a Rubik's Cube.

 

Bejita- I only followed this *odd* post to see your solving of Rubiks cube! I'll grab the spotlight for ya!

[Clep]

No, there is truth to what she said, and you see it echoed many times throughout this thread. It's true. I don't know why it is, but most of the black men who have flirted with me have exuded this cool, collected confidence. They're at ease with themselves, yet clearly communicate their attraction to you with a lot of warmth. Also, they do not make the mistake of being stingy with the affection and physical touch that uptight white guys do. Maybe that's their "game", but whatever it is, it's very attractive.

 

This is the thing I notice most. When my bf and I are at home he is always affectionate, and I mean very much so. When we are out together there is no mistaking we are together. He regularly has his hands on me somewhere or somehow. I have never experienced something like this before.

 

When we are out with his friends and their women his friends are exactly the same. In dating only white men before for twenty years I never saw this type of concentration of physical affection which leads me to believe it is more with black men. Maybe their culture dictates that style for them, but there are many cultures within the black community. My bf is Jamaican and most of his friends are.

[lord alfred douglas]

I wouldnt overrate the affection and sexual forwardness

 

When I was a skinny young man with longish hair I had black men coming on to me all the time and I was a straight guy

[sagetalk]

Also, they do not make the mistake of being stingy with the affection and physical touch that uptight white guys do. Maybe that's their "game", but whatever it is, it's very attractive.

 

It is a game, they are trying to get laid. Relationships are far more than that, but what do I know about women, I'm just a white guy .

[meerkat stew]

My bf is Jamaican and most of his friends are.

 

must... try ... resist... Jamaican... weed.... joke

[Clep]

must... try ... resist... Jamaican... weed.... joke

 

Ahahaha. I hear it's pretty good.

[sagetalk]

This is the thing I notice most. When my bf and I are at home he is always affectionate, and I mean very much so. When we are out together there is no mistaking we are together. He regularly has his hands on me somewhere or somehow. I have never experienced something like this before.

 

When we are out with his friends and their women his friends are exactly the same.

 

Well, I may be a stiff white guy, but the way I was raised, if you grab and grope on a women in public you are considered low class/sleazy and only after sex. If my friends or family saw me treating a women like that I would be a disgrace to them. I cannot speak for all white men, but just because a guy is grabbing on you all the time does not mean he is a great guy or in love with you. It could just be you're nothing but a piece of meat to him.

[brock25]

Perhaps the OP's black friend gets a lot of women for reasons that have nothing to do with race. I have seen some black men who get a lot of women. I have seen other black men who get very few women. Same thing applies to men from other races.

[Woggle]

I see white guys who pretty much ignore all sexual harrassment laws getting plenty of female attention as well. I am getting the sense that many women are not happy with the world radical feminists have created for them but it is their own doing.

[meerkat stew]

Ahahaha. I hear it's pretty good.

 

That explains why he's grabbing onto you so much, he's trying not to fall down.

[Ruby Slippers]

I cannot speak for all white men, but just because a guy is grabbing on you all the time does not mean he is a great guy or in love with you. It could just be you're nothing but a piece of meat to him.

 

I see white guys who pretty much ignore all sexual harrassment laws getting plenty of female attention as well. I am getting the sense that many women are not happy with the world radical feminists have created for them but it is their own doing.

Damn, you two really know how to bleed the fun right out of anything, don't you?

 

You could learn a little something from this thread -- most women like lots of physical affection from their men.

 

But no, you've got to distort what we said and turn healthy affection into "grabbing a piece of meat" and "sexual harrassment".

 

Lighten up! Life's not all gloom and doom.

[Woggle]

Damn, you two really know how to bleed the fun right out of anything, don't you?

 

You could learn a little something from this thread -- most women like lots of physical affection from their men.

 

But no, you've got to distort what we said and turn healthy affection into "grabbing a piece of meat" and "sexual harrassment".

 

Lighten up! Life's not all gloom and doom.

 

Feminists are the ones who created a climate where simply looking at a woman the wrong way can get a man labeled a pervert so don't point the finger at me.

[Clep]

Well, I may be a stiff white guy, but the way I was raised, if you grab and grope on a women in public you are considered low class/sleazy and only after sex. If my friends or family saw me treating a women like that I would be a disgrace to them. I cannot speak for all white men, but just because a guy is grabbing on you all the time does not mean he is a great guy or in love with you. It could just be you're nothing but a piece of meat to him.

 

I didn't say he was groping me. Holding my hand, rubbing the small of my back or my arm, putting his arm around me and hugging me from behind are far from disgraceful in my eyes. I find it interesting that from the word "affection" I used you imagined sleazy groping. At home in our room is where the sleazy groping happens.

 

If I was a piece of meat many components of our relationship and level of commitment we both have would not be in place.

 

It might be an idea to analyze your negative your attitude is towards black men and see just what the problem is there. I may be wrong but I am sensing a great deal of negativity, borderline hostility.

[DiscoChick]

Race has nothing to do with it. The first guy I dated was white. He had no idea how to be affectionate; he treated me exactly how my mother did when I was a child. He showered me with gifts and BS I didn't want or need. I dumped him after eight months. He was nice, but no. My last ex was African American, but he had a really big ego and no idea how to be affectionate outside the bedroom. He seemed to be forcing himself to hold my hand or to hug me. Towards the end, he did become more affectionate, but it just... Then again, both of the guys I dated were missing some screws. The first suffers from controlled schizophrenia, and the second guy has manic depression and adhd. I have to date someone "normal" before I die. Just once.

[norajane]

I have to date someone "normal" before I die. Just once.

 

Good luck with that!!

[tami-chan]

I have yet to meet a black man I am attracted to....I doubt I ever will. There is this black MD at my work whom the nurses think is "soooooooooo hot"....I looked and really, I do not see it. I admit he is quite cool because we always catch him singing some Earth, Wind and Fire song..("Fantasy", with that falsetto voice.. ).

[DiscoChick]

Good luck with that!!

 

As long as they are more normal than what I've experienced. That will suffice.

[norajane]

I have yet to meet a black man I am attracted to....I doubt I ever will. There is this black MD at my work whom the nurses think is "soooooooooo hot"....I looked and really, I do not see it. I admit he is quite cool because we always catch him singing some Earth, Wind and Fire song..("Fantasy", with that falsetto voice.. ).

 

He's got a brain which he uses - that's hot, tami. Get to know him better!

 

(a man who sings while he's making love to you is hot!)

[BackUpOrGetStung]

Hahaha, reading through this thread, I can see examples of almost everything I said.