Why women love black men

[singlelife]

A friend of mine and me both get lots of women. He is black and some of my friends who get no action always wonder how come he gets so much action. It's almost as if he doesn't even try. I have to give it to him he even gets hotter chicks than I do but I ain't a hater like my friends. As usual I just get on here and ask what's up with that. And fyi my friends aren't racist we are all cool they just see a pattern. And he wanted to see what everyone said as well.

[BG1985]

Do you really not know the answer to this question? It rhymes with big lick.

[Bejita463]

Do you really not know the answer to this question? It rhymes with big lick.

 

Pig trick?

[BG1985]

Better yet, it's because your friend is packing heat, and not in the way Plaxico Burress or Gilbert Arenas pack heat.

[Bejita463]

Better yet, it's because your friend is packing heat, and not in the way Plaxico Burress or Gilbert Arenas pack heat.

 

Icy Hot packs?

[Simon Attwood]

Do you really not know the answer to this question? It rhymes with big lick.

 

 

trust me that's a myth.

[BWLoca]

Swagger

[Satisfaction]

Pig trick?

 

and you can rhyme too

 

Could be the novelty value? Don't worry about the fact he pulls more. You will probably get a serious long term girlfriend long before he does and you can just sit with her on the sofa relaxing, joking and reading poetry to each other while he has to go out on the pull every single day.

[norajane]

Sounds like you're asking why THIS black man gets more women than you or your friends. You would probably be able to answer why better than we can since you know him, know his personality, know his attitude, know how he is around women, etc.

 

Otherwise, you're saying that women in general are more attracted to ALL black men for reasons having to do with color, and taking nothing else into account. Is that what you're saying?

[singlelife]

Nope me and him are the only ones in our crew who pulls actually. He is stting with me while I type this. We both are playas and get hot girls. But I ain't a hater and give him props he does get a lot of extra fine hotties. Our friends see a pattern of that women seem to be mostly attracted to black men that is the question. I get women because I don't care.

[Bejita463]

and you can rhyme too

 

For my grand finale I will solve a Rubik's Cube.

[tigressA]

From what I've seen of black men, they tend to give off that "I don't care; everything's cool" vibe very naturally. It's like it's in their blood. And of course that's attractive to a lot of women. Black men just don't do it for me, though. I've only found myself attracted to a few here and there.

[Satisfaction]

For my grand finale I will solve a Rubik's Cube.

 

What? Hell no!

[Simon Attwood]

I think this is what we are trying to say here

 

[BackUpOrGetStung]

First let me say, that for every white woman that likes/loves black guys, there's one that won't come near us(at least figuratively). This is assuming you are strictly about why white women like black guys. This is a compilation of things white guys do that make it easier for me to get white girls, coming from a black guy who has grown up around mostly white people. I've also asked a white girl that I dated why she's never seriously dated a white guy. This is of course, not applicable to all white guys and guys of all races do the same. I'll try to do this without starting a race war.

 

I find that many of my white friends while not openly bigoted, will make joking remarks about other cultures that are extremely ignorant, and they think they're being genuinely funny. This brings to my white friend's humor in general which is a lot of the time, lame and unfunny and possibly ignorant/offensive. It is also this type of condescending attitude(my way is best, or worse, my way is right) that is a turn off, and shows through in everything. I've also noticed how many white friends(and more importantly, their parents), don't treat women as equal and can be quite condescending while also having high expectations of them. I've witness my friend's fathers, countless times, scolding their mother like a child over nothing, in front of not just their son, but me too. Makes me wonder what they say when I'm not around.

 

I also think they might just want some variety. I know I like Asian women, black women, white women, latina..you get the picture. As far as the big "lick" theory goes, I hooked up with a black chick recently and I made reference to the rumor(it's true for me, so what's a guy supposed to think?), and she said it's not true. It should also be noted, that there are tons of black women that only like white guys, and shut me down off top.

[O'Malley]

Our friends see a pattern of that women seem to be mostly attracted to black men that is the question.

 

This is flawed, as you are only collectively analyzing the women your friend gets....not the women he approaches who aren't attracted to him, for one reason or another. Your friend does not have a 100% success rate with women; by your theory, this would also be because he is black.

 

None of which takes into account what other qualities he has that attracts some women and turns others off. Since it's more of a back patting question than anything...

[norajane]

None of which takes into account what other qualities he has that attracts some women and turns others off. Since it's more of a back patting question than anything...

 

Yes, that's exactly what it is.

[BackUpOrGetStung]

The question is heavily flawed, and I don't think most women are attracted to black men, but I understood what he was trying to ask(I think) and tried to answer.

[AD1980]

I know some white women who are attracted to d black men and some who arent everyones different

 

I do think theyres a small percentage who loko at them as a novelty and see being with a black guy as some fun rebellious thing to do plus the myth they buy into.

[OpenGL]

First let me say, that for every white woman that likes/loves black guys, there's one that won't come near us(at least figuratively). This is assuming you are strictly about why white women like black guys. This is a compilation of things white guys do that make it easier for me to get white girls, coming from a black guy who has grown up around mostly white people. I've also asked a white girl that I dated why she's never seriously dated a white guy. This is of course, not applicable to all white guys and guys of all races do the same. I'll try to do this without starting a race war.

 

I find that many of my white friends while not openly bigoted, will make joking remarks about other cultures that are extremely ignorant, and they think they're being genuinely funny. This brings to my white friend's humor in general which is a lot of the time, lame and unfunny and possibly ignorant/offensive. It is also this type of condescending attitude(my way is best, or worse, my way is right) that is a turn off, and shows through in everything. I've also noticed how many white friends(and more importantly, their parents), don't treat women as equal and can be quite condescending while also having high expectations of them. I've witness my friend's fathers, countless times, scolding their mother like a child over nothing, in front of not just their son, but me too. Makes me wonder what they say when I'm not around.

 

I also think they might just want some variety. I know I like Asian women, black women, white women, latina..you get the picture. As far as the big "lick" theory goes, I hooked up with a black chick recently and I made reference to the rumor(it's true for me, so what's a guy supposed to think?), and she said it's not true. It should also be noted, that there are tons of black women that only like white guys, and shut me down off top.

 

This, listen to this guy and stop buying into the hype about how white women love black men.

 

As for me, honestly I hate the type of women who ONLY date black men exclusively. I don't like the type of women who date any particular race exclusively.

 

I have dated girls in the past who only exclusively date black men and I'll never do that again.

[Johnny M]

I've also noticed how many white friends(and more importantly, their parents), don't treat women as equal and can be quite condescending while also having high expectations of them. I've witness my friend's fathers, countless times, scolding their mother like a child over nothing, in front of not just their son, but me too. Makes me wonder what they say when I'm not around.

You are right, black men treat women much better than their white counterparts do. No condescension, no scolding, no high expectations. They just bail as soon as she misses her period

[OpenGL]

You are right, black men treat women much better than their white counterparts do. No condescension, no scolding, no high expectations. They just bail as soon as she misses her period

 

Seriously, what is your problem? Do you at least admit you're racist?

 

Black men don't bail. People bail, White, Black, Asian, etc.

 

Don't make it about the race, make it about the person. People make decisions, don't stick their decisions to their entire race.

[Lizzie60]

Black men are my favourites...

 

and it's not a myth btw... I've had many many black lovers.. and it seems to be a 'characteristic' of the race.. but this is not the reason why I love black men...

 

The ones that are beautiful are realllllly beautiful... I don't know what it is exactly.. but they're cool... (most of them)... but like any other races, some are jerks...

 

The BS that caught me with her H.. they were black... he was a really attractive (extremely well endowed)..

[alphamale]

A friend of mine and me both get lots of women. He is black and some of my friends who get no action always wonder how come he gets so much action. It's almost as if he doesn't even try. I have to give it to him he even gets hotter chicks than I do but I ain't a hater like my friends. As usual I just get on here and ask what's up with that. And fyi my friends aren't racist we are all cool they just see a pattern. And he wanted to see what everyone said as well.

i think some black men come off as very masculine and controlling. certain women like this combination

[Lizzie60]

i think some black men come off as very masculine and controlling. certain women like this combination

 

masculine.. yes

controlling.. not at all.. (not in my experience)

 

the ones I 'dated' were very gentle... very sexy... fun to be with...