un-truthful friend

[sweetjoi]

hi,

i have this guy friend whom i been friends with for about 6 or seven years.

we talk and share many things with eachother.

after returning back to work after having my days off, he ask me a question as to, have i gotten married while i were off.

if i gets upset with him, he goes out his way to make things right"which is makes me fell, our friendship is just as important to him as to me. iif i cause hard toward our relationship, i will make it my business to make it right.

something i learn troubles me a little.

talking as always, i ask him will he ever marry again,his reply were never.

it were soso wierd!

a friend of minds came into my office asking me, did i hear of my friend getting married. it shock me big times! i were the one who ask him and he replyed no he will not.

i know of him having a girlfriend; they live with eachother.

what suprise me, he didn't share;and to top it off, he made it seen, he has no plans of marrriage to anyone. he's not sharing his marriage plans

my girlfriend found out by accident and ask him were was any truth to him getting married"he replyed, just more sex.

should i ask him or leave it alone?

[Boundary Problem]

I was initially going to say he sounds confused.

 

But then I changed my mind and decided that he seems to be cultivating you as a friend. I suspect you will soon hear abou how badly his 'marriage' is going...he will need some comfort...

 

If you truly had a friendship I think he would have been straight up with you about any plans to get married.

 

Come to think of it I don't think guys are 'just' friends with women. There is usually a plan, despite the presented "confusion". I think they like to keep us thinking it is confusing. Meanwhle for them - it is absolutely clear.

 

I've come to the conclusion that men are a lot smarter and devious than I ever expected of them.

 

See I used to be totally ignorant/innocent about men and what they are, but there is someone close to me who has been educating me. It is putting a lot of confusing things into perspective for me.