miaharun Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 Hi All, Im new here and im kind of depressed with a situation of a friend of mine. I met this girl and for about 4-5 months we couldn't wait without communicating with each other. We were so fond of each other. After 5-6 months this bonding graually faded and when we get close we end up fighting. Now it has been a year or so and we are friends but we bearly talk to each other. I really miss the times we had and i would appriciate anyone to tell me what i can do to make it happen. Also i want to give her a nice gift made by myslef. Any creative ideas? Thanks, miaharun.
Jade 02 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 In That short of time of friendsiptell me she really didn't care for you. I say this because she'd be trying to get you back as a friebd. Have you tried walking up,and appologizing,or as she to be that would be a great gift.
Author miaharun Posted January 21, 2010 Author Posted January 21, 2010 In That short of time of friendsiptell me she really didn't care for you. I say this because she'd be trying to get you back as a friebd. Have you tried walking up,and appologizing,or as she to be that would be a great gift. She did care for me at that short period. She used to ask if im ok night and day. But now its not the same. Maybe she got fed up of me. Soon after a big fight i went up to her and apologized but thats that and things haven't changed. Im not in love with her or anything but i felt as if she was a part of me and for that short period i think she pretty much felt the same way.
Jade 02 Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Do you have any kind of comunicaton with her at all. do you ever recall saying something or doing something at one time?,and felt an instant thought or felt like that was a F#$%^&* up thing to do? Mabey it is another dude,but if you were only friends. Maybey she thought she'd hurt your feelings if she did find another man. If she's being a bithc about it just let her go she might be playing silly games with your heart,or using you for something. Leave her alone look at another date I bet she comes crawling back. You go to school? If you do I know it will be hard but syudy at a library,get some good grades. Either way good luck Jade
Author miaharun Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 I do, I sometimes send her text messages and she replies for the sake of replying. Maybe she is giving me a message to leave her alone but i would have preferred if she told it to my face. However i want to give her a gift very badly... Please help me out with that one. Thanks
Boundary Problem Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Hi All, Im new here and im kind of depressed with a situation of a friend of mine. I met this girl and for about 4-5 months we couldn't wait without communicating with each other. We were so fond of each other. After 5-6 months this bonding graually faded and when we get close we end up fighting. Now it has been a year or so and we are friends but we bearly talk to each other. I really miss the times we had and i would appriciate anyone to tell me what i can do to make it happen. Also i want to give her a nice gift made by myslef. Any creative ideas? Thanks, miaharun. I think you are trying to give a gift to revive the friendship. Further you want to give a home-made creative gift - which is a very personal thing to do. I think your priority, if you want to salvage the friendship, is to spend some fun time with her and try to figure out the source of your fighting. I don't fight with my girlfriends. But some women do fight with their girlfriends and it can be that she is jealous of something in your life. And you can't fix that problem. You just have to find a different friend, or maybe she is going through something. Try talking to her. Don't get her a gift - I think it would make the situation unbalanced and awkward.
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