dreamer0123 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 Hey Ok so I just met with my ex after three months of barely any contact... this was all initiated by him (Background info: we are both in our late 20s and was together for 3 years- the break was sorta mutual but more on his part). Anyways- so we met and it was really hard. I mean it was nice to see him again but we were both nervous (more so myself than him)... So we met for a couple of hours for some drinks- it was casual- we talked about work, friends, and occasionally he'd make little comments that confused me. For instance he and I used to cook elaborate meals together so I asked he still cooked he would say:" Well I don't have my little sous-chef anymore" or if we talk about going to a game it would be:" Wouldn't it be crazy if we went to the same game??" The night ended with us giving each other a hug and going our separate ways. He told me he wanted to see me and that he missed me.. and it was good seeing me but what does all this mean? Does it mean nothing? Is he just passing time until he meets someone new? Does he want to get back together? So any advice would be appreciated!
EM47 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 no, dont read too much into this. move on, date other people. if something happens, great but don't count on it.
aerogurl87 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 no, dont read too much into this. move on, date other people. if something happens, great but don't count on it. I hate to sound cynical, but I agree with EM47. If something happens, then good, but in the meantime go about your life as you would if he didn't try to come back around. My ex now says he wants to reconcile, but as I've told him he has to earn my trust back and show me that he's serious. In the meantime though, I'm not gonna put all my eggs in one basket sort to speak because him and I have been here before.
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