Bejita463 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 He just text me again asking for me friend's number... So give it to him. Well you're awesome- and I know I am just feeling sorry for myself right now. That's me in my avatar- but to be honest, I have a super attractive group of friends. I'm the smart one;) I find it likely that you underestimate yourself.
deux ex machina Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 ...I find it likely that you underestimate yourself. I was thinking the same thing!
Author D-Lish Posted January 21, 2010 Author Posted January 21, 2010 That is just LAME.. What a dick... Goes to show you and your friend that all he is about is her looks.. Don't text him her number, He is now making a fool out of himself for a second time.. Block his ass....the guy has no idea hwo he is coming across... Well as far as I go, I know this- but she is a little interested in him after tonight. As much as I am feeling the rejection, I've told her I don't care and I am cool with it. I do care- but seeing her happy and giddy about him liking her softens me regardless.
tami-chan Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 oh dear...I read your OP and ....wow...how awkward....is your friend interested in him?
whichwayisup Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 D- you're awesome! His loss that he's liking her over you.. Next fella that comes your way will be alot better than this dufis!
Trialbyfire Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 You're such a sweetheart and I mean that sincerely, D. Just text him back and tell him you'll give his number to her and let her contact him. Then block his number. It also occurred to me that he's gaming you but who knows. If he is, he's a real douchebag and worth blocking. If he's not gaming you, he lacks any form of couth and tact, hence worth blocking, since he figured out that it was YOU, he's been talking to all this past week.
Bejita463 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 Nicer than I am. He'd have gotten this in reply already, were I her.
SadandConfusedWA Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 D, you are awesome! Your friend is indeed blessed to have you in her life. I know "the misunderstanding" must be tough but after this all settles down, it will be really funny. Besides, I know how it is with me and my girlfriends, you win some - they win some.
nomad0792 Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 D-Lish Sorry to hear about that. You will get your day in the sun. Crazy story, but you seem like a great girl.
Payden Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 I hope someone has given you a hugg........... E-huggs..((((((()))))))) OMG I am getting so gay..lol...
torranceshipman Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 Hey you have nothing to feel a fool about, and you sound like a great friend plus you look great in your avatar! That's why you start a post about feeling a fool and it ends with banana trying to hit on you :D Seriously, he sounds like a bit of a loser anyways...there's a much nicer guy out there waiting to meet you!
GAchasen Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 D-Lish, You have a great pic and you're very sweet. You'll meet the right man for you. He was a stupid drunk, anyway!!! You're also a fabulous friend! You thought of her feelings and that is unselfish
Author D-Lish Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Thanks for your kind words and encouragement guys:love: As much as it hit a little hard in the ego department, I decided to go ahead and forward him her number and let them sort it out. I can tell she is sort of into him, so I will just step aside and let the two of them sort it out between themselves. On to the next I suppose. I have a date from POF on Sunday (I won't be bringing my friend!) lol.
shadowplay Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 (edited) Plse don't take this as an insult to your friend because it's not intended that way. But, I can't hold back. Cameron Diaz at any age, isn't that big a deal. Okay, I said it and now feel better. Sorry D. I disagree. Have you ever seen Cameron in The Mask? She was smoking hot, and I'm sure most men would probably agree. But seriously, I don't get why the focus on looks in this thread. I'm sure D and her friend are both very attractive. Maybe he just happened to like the friend better for whatever reason. Just because D is very attractive, doesn't mean every guy on earth will be into her. I know she's not implying this, but people seem to be acting like it's crazy that he would prefer the friend just because D is also beautiful. People just have different tastes. Edited January 22, 2010 by shadowplay
New_Life08 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Oh man! That sux! What did your friend think? Was she like .....dogs? I don't have no friggan dogs!!! Humor aside...I feel for you... we have all been through something that blows our ego. Hang in there, you'll laugh about one day
ADF Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Believe it or not, the day may come when you see some humor in this.
E.U. Premier Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Come on folks, give the guy a break! He was out, thrashed, met some girls and got the doggie story mixed up! He didn't ask the other bird for her number on that night -he asked you D-Lish! So, he had to stand in front of you, eye-to-eye, and ask you for your number. Pissed or not, he knew what he was doing then. Bear this in mind. If I was him, meeting up with a new hot girl and her friends on a given night, I'd pay close attention to her girlfriends and make sure that they liked me too. I've always found that a girl's friends can make or break a budding relationship and as we all know, girls talk, so it pays to keep on the good side of the mates! The poor b^stard, sitting there surrounded by a gaggle of hot women, everything going perfect -he mentions the dogs and... the air chills and practically in unison, they all stand-up and walk out! I bet by now, a few hours on, he's wailing drunkenly in his mate's ear, "What is it with fricken dogs"! BTW, totally agree, Cameron Diaz is way over-rated and I'd take the Avatar all day long. It's very common for girls to think their friend's are hotter than they!
Author D-Lish Posted January 24, 2010 Author Posted January 24, 2010 Meh, I am over it. I had a good time out tonight and I have a POF date tomorrow. He ended up texting my friend after I gave him her number and he text her yesterday "hey K, been too long, how's florida?" Lol - wrong "K", don't know anything about Florida... So- the guy just keeps getting better and better. It's no picnic throwing yourself out there trying to find a suitable partner. It hurt initially, but I feel much better knowing the guy can't even get his girls straight.
alphamale Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Meh, I am over it. yea see it was no big deal
Author D-Lish Posted January 24, 2010 Author Posted January 24, 2010 yea see it was no big deal It was only a big deal initially. Now that I know he's a total ass-hat, I don't feel so bad. Now my friend feels like a moron because he doesn't even remember who she is...
Bejita463 Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 It was only a big deal initially. Now that I know he's a total ass-hat, I don't feel so bad. Now my friend feels like a moron because he doesn't even remember who she is... I still say you missed a golden opportunity to hand him a pretty sick burn.
Author D-Lish Posted January 24, 2010 Author Posted January 24, 2010 I still say you missed a golden opportunity to hand him a pretty sick burn. I probably did, lol.
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