OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Men, please read all of this. This is something we already know but I have never seen it so clearly defined before. A real eye opener. This is the result of a society that has told their children that they are all "beautiful little butterflies" and that everything they do is wonderful and fascinating and noteworthy. Men eventually outgrow it...well, most do to some extent, when society starts telling them that they're not kids any more and starts focusing on what they've DONE. Women...they are baby-dolls all their lives. Everyone wants to see what they're doing every minute of their lives, regardless of how "interesting" it is. A lot of this is due to the glorification of the female sexuality through pornography. Remember, in our parents' generation, buying "porn" was an embarassing proposition. You had to either ask the guy to give you a dirty mag from one side of the counter, or if you wanted video, you had to go to one of "THOSE places". Now you can just log on to any computer and there it is. And RIDICULOUS fetish crap too. Not even SEXUAL stuff. I messed around with a girl once who ran a website that showed pictures of women getting their cars stuck in the mud. Not even naked...just women getting stuck. And dudes paid money to jerk it to this! That's just it these days...women are adored JUST FOR EXISTING. They are pedestalled from day one as kids and as they mature, they blossom sexually and CONTINUE to be pedstalled by men who will pay money just for a GLIMPSE of "what she's doing". It's like they believe it's their purpose in life to entertain sappy men. They post some picture on their FaceBook of them partying and wait for the comments. Not just from their friends, but from all the gay dudes who, instead of being out climbing mountains and building bridges, are hanging out on FaceBook posting comments like, "Looking good, girl!" 500 "friends" and she doesn't know 400 of them. But they feed her with attention and validate her pathetic existence. They used to "hit the wall" at about 35, when they started getting old and their looks started to fade a little. Now we have MILFs and G-MILFs and all this other nonsense. See...even if she's married and has kids, she can parade herself in front of the camera and be "sexy" and her husband, sappy POS that he is, just lets her do it and eats it up. "Oh baby, you're so hot. I'm so lucky to have you". Then she gets divorced because she was cheating on him and all of a sudden she's adored for being a "strong single mother". What has she done to earn this praise? Made a mistake, married the wrong dude, brought a kid into the world, then gave that kid a broken home, and society LOVES her. Men call her a MILF, women praise her "strength". Pics go up on the damn FaceBook and comments about how much "I love my baby" and she's a goddam hero. These women grew up watching women like Britney Spears and Paris Hilton as they got out of their limos and the world watched. "What's she doing now? OMG!!" Why was Paris Hilton a star, anyway? Anyone remember? Oh yeah, some dumb night-vision BJ video. She was a sexual train-wreck ready to happen. Here's the interesting paradox. The media had found someone that suddenly garnered a lot of interest from both men AND women. BUT because of the FCC, they couldn't put much focus on WHY she was interesting. (mainly because she was a spoiled rich girl who loved to f*ck) So they glorified her in celebrity culture for NO GOOD REASON. Everyone from our generation knew why she got attention, but the media did its best to make us FORGET that and instead propped people like her up as "wonderful" for NO REASON. So it wasn't Paris Hilton, but the glam media fabrication surrounding her, the "straw-man Paris", that became the role-model for a generation of young women. It became their ultimate goal to "be watched by the world for any and no reason". And then came MySpace and FaceBook. Suddenly, they had their own personal online media outlet, where all they needed was a 5-megapixel camera and suddenly they could ALL be starlets-for-nothing. And why don't women grow out of this and become "interesting"? Because for some reason, people insist on reinforcing that they ARE "interesting", even when they're not. Men insist on acting as though they're "interested" in what women do because they think it'll give them a better chance of getting in her pants. (it won't) But they can't "make a move", because that would be "dirty". So they just sit and dote aimlessly hoping one day they'll get a glimpse of (.)(.) to satisfy their vapid lives. And other women...they measure each other's success in terms of the aesthetic value and variety of pictures on their FaceBook pages. Thus the desire to travel and get as many pics in as many countries in as many bars with as many random dudes as possible. A rich tapestry of bullsh*t. The problem is that no one has the balls any more to tell the empresses that they have no clothes. This is what's been propped up by an entire generation that was fed garbage by the media and the entertainment industries and doesn't have the sense to throw it back up and get real.
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 Also I want to point out this pretty much lines up with when I really started to have trouble with women... when all that fake celebrity culture started getting popular. Back when facebook didn't exist, myspace wasn't popular, and no one knew who Paris Hilton was I didn't have much of a problem getting women. Also it seemed women were much more mature and much less ADD/attention whores.
torranceshipman Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Men, please read all of this. This is something we already know but I have never seen it so clearly defined before. A real eye opener. Are you a really short man? :laugh: I think you have short angry man syndrome.
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 Are you a really short man? :laugh: I think you have short angry man syndrome. This thread has nothing to do with height. Why are you even bringing it up?
BG1985 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Ugh, it's because of your height thread that is still inexplicably going strong. If you really hate women this much, just move to a middle eastern country or become a priest.
Stung Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I agree with a few things in this post. 1. Porn has become so widespread it's ridiculous. 2. It's a bad idea to tell people you think they're deep and interesting when they're not. 3. I don't know why Paris Hilton is famous, either. Otherwise, OpenGL, I think you need to get out a little bit more and try to start meeting some new people because the people you're surrounding yourself with now are steeping you in bitterness.
PinkToes Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I'm looking forward to hearing what women in their 20s think about what you've posted because I didn't grow up like this. But if it's true, in your world, what do you think you'll do about it? That's the real question, IMO, since I gather you're not happy about the situation.
Knittress Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 See... the thing is... any woman of substance and depth is going to be repulsed by your negative and superficial attitude, leaving you with... well, the rest of 'em. You get to prove your point. And the cycle continues.
EricaH329 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 This is what I got from this thread: Guys - They drool for females that are naked, or doing something that could possibly, remotely entertain them. Girls - They do all of those things listed in your post because if they don't, no male will pay them any attention. Why? Because if girl A isn't doing it, then girl B most certainly is. And why would a guy want girl A if she isn't giving him what he wants? Nice post! Very informative!
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 This is what I got from this thread: Guys - They drool for females that are naked, or doing something that could possibly, remotely entertain them. Girls - They do all of those things listed in your post because if they don't, no male will pay them any attention. Why? Because if girl A isn't doing it, then girl B most certainly is. And why would a guy want girl A if she isn't giving him what he wants? Nice post! Very informative! Yes, I agree, men are as responsible as women in this regard.
Crazy Magnet Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I have been baffled over Paris Hilton's "fame" for years. You know, there are a lot worse things in life to keep whining about other than women. Why don't you consider devoting some time to world peace, or starving children in Africa? No normal, sane, or interesting woman is going to get within 10 feet of you.
BG1985 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 And for what it's worth, I don't think I know a single girl who idolizes Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Kim Kardashian, etc. Most either don't care or are repulsed by them. Most girls whom I know are rather well-adjusted and have a good head on their shoulders.
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 You know, there are a lot worse things in life to keep whining about other than women. Why don't you consider devoting some time to world peace, or starving children in Africa? No normal, sane, or interesting woman is going to get within 10 feet of you. I'm building my business, career, and education, and fitness. I denote regularity, both money and clothes. I have my life together.
BG1985 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 If you're telling us the truth about yourself, then you really must meet the worst of the worst when it comes to women. Maybe you exclusively approach girls who are out of your league.
BG1985 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 And it's not even so much about having your life together. Are you a fun person to be around? Are you funny? Do people enjoy your company?
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 And it's not even so much about having your life together. Are you a fun person to be around? Are you funny? Do people enjoy your company? I didn't really want to make this thread about me, but I'll indulge you. I don't approach women out of my league, as the only women I don't approach are the obese ones. As I have stated in other threads I have no problem with making friends really, it's just if I pursue anything other than friendship it's a no-go.
carhill Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 if I pursue anything other than friendship it's a no-go. When that (no-go) stops mattering to you, things will change.
EricaH329 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Open, what exactly is the point to your thread? Shouldn't you be blaming the media instead of women? I could easily come back with a thread called "The best post on the state of men I have seen in YEARS" and post this same exact thread. I'm confused as to what you are trying to get at? Help me out.
Author OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 Open, what exactly is the point to your thread? Shouldn't you be blaming the media instead of women? I could easily come back with a thread called "The best post on the state of men I have seen in YEARS" and post this same exact thread. I'm confused as to what you are trying to get at? Help me out. Just trying to educate people and start a discussion on how the media is effecting women (and men for that matter). If you look at my previous threads I have always partly blame the media, that is nothing new. You coulnd't start the same thread about men. All of the things discussed are things exclusively to women. Men aren't idolized for just existing unless they are brad pitt.
CLC2008 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Did I forget to mention weenie? Look OP, if you have such disgust towards the media and/or women, then don't buy into it. That means, no more porn, no more nude girlie magazines, no more go go bars, just devote your life here on out to celibacy. Become a monk, join the peach corps, whatever rocks your world.
betamanlet Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Just trying to educate people and start a discussion on how the media is effecting women (and men for that matter). If you look at my previous threads I have always partly blame the media, that is nothing new. You coulnd't start the same thread about men. All of the things discussed are things exclusively to women. Men aren't idolized for just existing unless they are brad pitt. Society has always had "socialites", it' sjust they have instant communication and are just more vulgar.. Paris Hilton existed many generations ago, they just didn't have camcorders and night vision back then, that's all. The 1920s was notorious for this... Not only were the acting the same way, but also breaking the law by drinking booze. At least now booze is legal...
Lishy Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I'm building my business, career, and education, and fitness. I denote regularity, both money and clothes. I have my life together. But you are still a short woman hater ... cool!
EricaH329 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Just trying to educate people and start a discussion on how the media is effecting women (and men for that matter). If you look at my previous threads I have always partly blame the media, that is nothing new. You coulnd't start the same thread about men. All of the things discussed are things exclusively to women. Men aren't idolized for just existing unless they are brad pitt. On the same hand, if it weren't for men buying into all this media crap... do you really think women would still do what they are doing? That'd be a negative. So yes, the media is painting this picture of what women should be like to be sexy. If men didn't follow that picture that the media had begun painting, no female would act that way. Why? Because men wouldn't find it attractive. So really, it sounds to me like the main problem here is men and what they drool over.
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 OK, this guy is an amateur, I'm a -much- better gender baiter than he is or will ever be In fact, his rant is more a commentary on the state of MEN than of women. Women don't get spoiled without someone doing the spoiling, and who does that? other women? Hell no, other women are too busy tearing each other down to spoil anyone. Men are the spoilers of women. Men are the daddies that raise daddy's lil princess. Men are the ones who allow women to escape any sort of social or cultural accountability for the same level of bad choices that get men branded. Men are the ones who reward only physical beauty in women and then complain when women develop shallow attitudes because of it. Men are the ones who try to buy affection from women as the lazy way out instead of making themselves attractive and desirable in other ways. Men are equally responsible with women for the transactional nature of many male/female social interactions. Women didn't wake up one day and say "Oooo, wonder if I can create a culture whereby all I have to do is look pretty and people will fawn all over me?" We all had a hand in that state of affairs. We have all readily worn the yoke of the modern media-consumer state and become good little consumers. We all rewound over and over when Janet's titty flopped out at the Super Bowl. We all watched Pam and Tommy. We all watched Paris. We all have our 250 channels full of raw sex appeal. Speaking of Paris, does anyone ever stop to realize what the interest on $50 mill will buy in terms of a publicist? or an ARMY of publicists? Hilton trusts probably let her hire "staff," but betcha they place strict limits on "partying money" and allowance. That girl can go and do anything in the world for free, no matter the cost, because she hired the right publicist(s). Do you think she actually pays for anything she does... ever? I think she is a frikkin genius. As far as his wondering why women never mature out of this? People aren't stupid. When women see men literally worshipping at the altar of female beauty, who can blame them for going to and staying on the dark side. Hell I would. Give me a bevy of supplicants and I'd sit right up on that throne like ole Jabba T. Hutt basking in all the attention. Finally as far as facebook goes, I think that's what his whole rant is about at the core, he's pissed at the perpetual vanity updates women post "I'm breastfeeding rugrat, ouch that hurts my nipples!" "I'm cleaning out a closet, what's that in the corner? Ewwwwwww JOHHHHHNnnn you PROMISED!" "I'm making cupcakes with rainbow unicorn sprinkles made from real unicorn pootie!" We knew women loved to chitter chatter about nothing already, old news. So what?
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