dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Guys: What can a girl do to appear to lose her femininity a little too much for your liking? Girls: What can a guy do to appear to lose a little too much of his masculinity for your liking?
AD1980 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I dotn beleive in gender roles i believe in people roles,people all have different strengths and weaknesses that doesnt always fall under a whole gender, a relationship should work to utilize the strength of each person The only thing to me that cna make a girl lose feminity is her personality,if shes crude and lacks class and curses allot or talks about gross things thats a turn off..
Trialbyfire Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Girls: What can a guy do to appear to lose a little too much of his masculinity for your liking?The guy either has masculinity or not. This impression is pretty obvious within the first few minutes of meet and greet. But attraction can easily be affected by behaviour. Whiny, passive-aggressive, disrespectful, discourteous, etc., etc., behaviour, just kills it for me.
New Again Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Girls: What can a guy do to appear to lose a little too much of his masculinity for your liking? He can go tanning and get mani/pedis.
Author dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 The guy either has masculinity or not. This impression is pretty obvious within the first few minutes of meet and greet. But attraction can easily be affected by behaviour. Whiny, passive-aggressive, disrespectful, discourteous, etc., etc., behaviour, just kills it for me. Well a guy I went out briefly last spring... he was masculine enough for me until.... He can go tanning and get mani/pedis.
Trialbyfire Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Well a guy I went out briefly last spring... he was masculine enough for me until....It sounds like different people value different things. Tanning and mani/pedis don't bother me at all. Better he tans and takes good care of his hands and feet, than allowing a door to slam in my face. A lack of respect and/or manners/social etiquette, kill attraction for me like nobody's business.
Author dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 It sounds like different people value different things. Tanning and mani/pedis don't bother me at all. Better he tans and takes good care of his hands and feet, than allowing a door to slam in my face. A lack of respect and/or manners/social etiquette, kill attraction for me like nobody's business. Very true. I don't even get my nails done though, so I guess when a guy takes it to a level even I don't, it feels a bit odd.
Trialbyfire Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Very true. I don't even get my nails done though, so I guess when a guy takes it to a level even I don't, it feels a bit odd.It's okay to not want a guy to be more vain than you are. I get manis/pedis and use a spray on tan, so that's probably why it doesn't bother me!
Author dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 It's okay to not want a guy to be more vain than you are. I get manis/pedis and use a spray on tan, so that's probably why it doesn't bother me! Guess I'm not much of a girly girl
Knittress Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 If I wanted to I could probably come up with a list of things that piss me off about PEOPLE, but I don't wanna dwell there. (whiny, negative, superficial, manipulative, dumb, boring, etc etc is equal-gender as far as I'm concerned) What would make me feel less inclined to shag a fellow who doesn't otherwise suck? - If he doesn't display a protective-nurturing instinct - If he doesn't show caring by being useful/helpful- by fixing, maintaining, problemsolving... whatever - If he doesn't possess a respectful aura of sexual dominance
Pizzaman81 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Guys: What can a girl do to appear to lose her femininity a little too much for your liking? Girls: What can a guy do to appear to lose a little too much of his masculinity for your liking? The way they dress.
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