ilikegirls Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 i dont really know how i know, but i my GF and her Ex began to talk to each other again after like 2-3 months -this kinda bothered me but i figured she can talk to how ever she wants then oneday she left her phone at my house, i am not proud, but i looked through it. she had a lot of recent texts back and forth with him flirty texts i remember one was saying "he would never know" i dont know what they talking about but its scaring me.. and there are a few hearts sent here and there. and the scary part is that about year ago they broke up, then i started talking to her. for about 5ish months trying to make her my gf, but not really actively more like we talked & hungout all the time, ppl thought we was dating. then one day he said sorry and wanted her back, so she left me... even though we wasnt actually anyhting. i stopped talking to her then they broke up again in like september. & in like oct she contacted me saying she sorry blah blah.. i started talking to her again, then we became official in december(she asked me) they went out for like a year then stopped for like 6months then another 3 months. almost every night we talk about how good we are together and how it feels like we have been together for years, all the mems together. & how we blesses to have eachother. etc etc idk what to do
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Dump her. 50 texts with an ex is emotional cheating, no ifs ands or buts. Well, unless cheating is cool with you.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 yep...sorry dude your getting played.
Space Ritual Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 "He Would Never Know" is pretty much the last thing I would need to see on a text message regardless..... Please spare yourself a boatload of heartache and get rid of her like a a disease. Which may not be far off if you don't listen to us.
seibert253 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 yep...sorry dude your getting played. ^^^^^^^ Like a fiddle She's being dishonest, disrespectful, and cheating on you. Definantly an EA and more than likely she's sleeping with him. She needs to go. No matter what she say's, she's not gonna change. Here's what you do; ask her "how's your ex doing"? She most likely will lie and say she's hasn't spoken to him then act confused and probably ask why you are asking. Then hit her with it like a baseball bat. Tell her you know what she's been up to with him, and you know about the inapropriate and excessive texting and contact between them. Tell her you will not tolerate cheating and lying, then dump her like trash into the can. You deserve better.
Clep Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 The fact that you felt the need to look into her phone is enough to say there are trust issues there, and it would appear for a valid reason. I would provide her with the walking papers.
Dexter Morgan Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 highly unacceptable and inappropriate. time to get a new girlfriend. put this one one the street. if she is so fond of her x, let her get back with him.
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