Perhaps Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Well, before I tell my problem, I wanna say that I did what most people on LS dream of. I was the ex that went back after a year. After months of apologizing, she eventually did give me a chance... but then took it away and pretty much abused my guilt.. and I had to go NC. Some of you might say I deserved it.. and I won't really argue with that. After trying to be her friend for 2-3 months (hoping to win her back) and many failed attempts at NC, I've finally been ignoring her calls.. she wants to be friends but I have feelings for her and I tried to be her friend (because I thought it's the least she deserved but she started smoking/drinking/weed) and wrote me as being controlling/obsessive when I tried to show concern. Now, she calls as if she did nothing and it's hard to ignore her calls because I keep thinking "what if she's calling to talk about "us"?" The other thing is.. we goto the same university so when I do see her around campus, I don't really acknowledge it. But it feels like the Lord almighty has punched me in the gut and my heart goes into overdrive for a few seconds. Has anyone else had to deal with a similar situation? Any advice? =(
gaudi Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 The other thing is.. we goto the same university so when I do see her around campus, I don't really acknowledge it. But it feels like the Lord almighty has punched me in the gut and my heart goes into overdrive for a few seconds. Has anyone else had to deal with a similar situation? Any advice? =( Not sure about a similar situation as yours mate. But as for this last bit where you see her around campus and stuff. My EX and I both work in a evening job where we sort of see each other around here and there. I know the feeling. it's absolutely sh***ing all over my NC at the minute, I was doing so well. Then yesterday I see her, (first time in about six weeks), and again today. God knows how I'm supposed to handle it. I have honestly tried my best to avoid her, but she pops up in places where I have no choice but to acknowledge her. it's driving me nuts !!!
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