Choboto Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Hey, she's free to be shallow and love men only for looks and money if she wants. Men are free to love women purely on body type, boob size, and how quickly she'll get into bed. It's a free country....but....it doesn't mean you get what you want. So HYPOTHETICALLY let's say she's the shallow evil woman you all think she is. If he's of sound mind and body then he'll reject her and you can all laugh at how good triumphed in the end. OR...he might decide she's worth a lay and he'll toy with her and toss her away, pulling out the lonely prom as his excuse. NOW THEN...coming to reality, what if she's more than just looks and money? What if he was hideous in high school, but hot now? Lord knows I was fat in high school and had poor fashion sense. Now I dress and look way better. I'm not saying she's a good or bad person. That's not the point of this topic. The point is she wants a guy to go out with her and I simply told her she should break traditional gender roles and take a shot. If he rejects her then she should move on. The big issue I see on this board is too many people project themselves into the people who get "wronged" in these topics. So many read her story and instantly imagined she rejected them personally. Hey...my Junior Prom date ditched me at the last minute and I didn't go. My Senior Prom date was my friend's sister, and it was just as friends. I was rejected a lot in my past too. I wouldn't date any of these women now because I see now how wrong for me they were back then (not even because they rejected me). I don't hold grudges or hope for karma to give me a great big "right" to correct the "wrongs". So let Anna do as she pleases and you do as you please. didnt say she wasnt, just said it wouldnt be a 'healthy' relationship if she wanted to date and marry and all that if she is after money and looks. im as shallow as the next dick, but i would never date a girl only for looks, id just band and leave, atleast that way they are hurt(more mad than hurt really) before they get emotionally attached, and have real emotional pains. But everyone thinks about the other perosn involved in different ways and selfish to different degrees. if she has any compasion just thing about it, if not, i think whoopin out your boobs next time you see him will suffice.
paddington bear Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I'm not sure Anna is real...perhaps someone just having a laugh. In case she is: He won't go out with you now because you rejected him when he did want you and his pride won't let him or he realises with the distance of time that he doesn't want your type of personality. Perhaps he's going out with fat, ugly girls now, because your rejection of him destroyed his self-esteem forever, so he will never want to go for you or any other woman who might reject him. If you already know he's not interested you cannot make him love you back. You cannot make anyone fall in love with you. Too late, you missed the boat, had you given him a chance way back when, you would now have a handsome, rich, good looking man, but you didn't. Hope you've learned a valuable lesson not to disregard the potential of anyone. Keep your eyes peeled for other ugly ducklings who may blossom when enveloped by the love of a good woman, instead of only being interested when they are already rich and handsome.
harmfulsweetz Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 ARE YOU CRAZY???? LOVE HIM????????? how can you love him? and your the one saying he goes out with fat slobs? then in same sentance you say " there is no way someone like him would go out with girls like that" ... if a guy likes a girl enough he asks her out? HAVE YOU READ HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU - i am not trying to be cruel but am very confused by your contradicting posts over HIS choices of dates.. ps when you love someone then you tend to have respect for their decisions even if you dont agree Agreed. You turned him down, not the other way around. Maybe he just isn't interested, and why should he be when you're really only bothered by his looks and his money?
alphamale Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 He always goes out with these fat, ugly girls. Why would he choose them over me? fat ugly girls are extremely compliant and obedient and will do whatever he says.
temple Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Ok, so I've known this cute guy for 9 years now. I've met him during my sophomore year at high school. He was the nerdy type of guy. Smart, but unattractive. I remember he asked me out to the senior prom, but I rejected him. So fast forward to 7 years after he asked me out. I see him again at a cafe, and MY GOD HE'S SO DAMN HANDSOME! He also runs his own business and makes a 7-figure-salary. And the best part is that he's still single! But he doesn't want to go out with me anymore. He always goes out with these fat, ugly girls. Why would he choose them over me? And how can I win his heart? Eh, doesn't seem you like him all that much. You rejected him twice already. Nothing in your post suggests you like him for any other reason than the 7 figure salary.
Clep Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I have 2 eyes, don't i? I can see that all the girls he goes out with are fat slobs. There is no way someone like him would go out with girls like that. I think he still has feelings for me. I just need to make him see how much I love him. There is a way he would go out with girls like that because he does. You need to make him see how much you love him but you haven't known him since high school? Maybe I read that wrong. What makes you think he still has feelings for you? Has he let on to you in some way that he does?
GAchasen Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 ARE YOU CRAZY???? LOVE HIM????????? how can you love him? and your the one saying he goes out with fat slobs? then in same sentance you say " there is no way someone like him would go out with girls like that" ... if a guy likes a girl enough he asks her out? HAVE YOU READ HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU - i am not trying to be cruel but am very confused by your contradicting posts over HIS choices of dates.. ps when you love someone then you tend to have respect for their decisions even if you dont agree This is true...and Why don't you just ask him out for yourself? If he is interested, then he will say yes. But somehow I don't think that would be enough for you. He may be into these types of people you mentioned above. You did reject him first. Maybe that is why he hasn't bothered with you, again.
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