sweetbaby23 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I had been with my bf for about 5 months. He was wonderful and makes a great bf. However the past couple week I've been feeling like I should be single n focus n myself and my career. So anyhow... I guess he was going through the same feelings and wasn't ready for a relationship. We were both trying to figure out how to tell each other and he told me first while I had no idea he had doubts as well. So we broke up. Everything ended as best as possible. I think we both saw amazing qualities in each other n thought we were crazy to let each other go, but I think the feelings just weren't strong enough. We never even faught, and I never saw him mad or upset. We got along great. I'm relieved to be broken up and not feeling like I lead him on. But he's such a wonderful guy I'm really sad things didnt work out. I know we didn't have passionate feelings for each other, but I'm still sad about this
Silver_star Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Its normal to feel sad even after a breakup that ended so "well" as you put it. No hard feelings, and that is rare. Except you still do respect and care for eachother and you want him to be happy as a person. You just are not ready to be in this relationship. It is hard to accept, because you both care. It will get easier though, in time, because you can either re-unite when your older and ready, or you will move on to other things but at least you have something lovely to look back on with no harsh feelings.
HLP234 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 You two did have passionate feelings for each other at one point. Every relationship dies down to this stage. Its communicating and making it work that bring those feelings back. You are sad because you miss the times you have had. But if both of you felt the same way, there is nothing you can do. Its good that you guys did not drag it out or lead each other on. Perhaps you guys are still friends and that can be a good thing. Its up to you how that will work out but if it ended well, no reason why you can't be friends, it just depends.
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