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bac Established Member

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If you are Asian, it is the best to ask Asian girls.

Pizzaman81 Established Member

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First off, where did you get that coat? I want one.

 

Secondly, you look like a tough guy. Like that famous japanese actor from Black Rain... Ken Takakura

 

YOSH!

 

You're an alright looking guy, you should try a friendlier smile, you look like you're gonna raid my house because I am anti-communist.

Satisfaction Established Member

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You seem like a decent looking guy to me. I think you'd look better if you let your hair grow out a bit though.

 

Unoriginal comment :) i'm gonna charge you for that :)

Island Girl Established Member

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I am in the US -- Caucasian to boot and you are have a great looking face. HAWTY.

 

Ask out who you want to ask out. Some will say yes and some will say no. It is the same for EVERYONE.

 

The comments about growing your hair -- some women (myself included) do not like longer hair. Yours is fine.

Some women like longer hair and yours would be too short.

 

Just be confident in who you are and it goes a long long way. Confidence is sooo sexy.

USMCHokie Established Member

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Just be confident in who you are and it goes a long long way. Confidence is sooo sexy.

 

This is important...and sometimes it takes your friends or a bunch of strangers online to tell you you're doing fine...after that it's just getting over any mental hurdles you might have inside you...

 

It's not just that women like confident guys, but being confident is more likely to put you in positions to attract women...if you are insecure about yourself, then you're more likely to avoid those opportunities altogether that confident guys would otherwise seize...

 

Yea, you'll win some and you'll lose some, but you can't win if you're not in the game...

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You're an alright looking guy, you should try a friendlier smile, you look like you're gonna raid my house because I am anti-communist.

 

I laughed so hard reading this :lmao:.

Bejita463 Established Member

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Unoriginal comment :) i'm gonna charge you for that :)

 

Wait, what?

 

Due to my having no idea what just happened, my instincts say I should attempt to behave as though I understand with a vague, yet intellectual retort:

NO U.

OpenGL Established Member

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All of the women in this thread who said you're good looking are the same women who wouldn't give you the time of day in real life.

 

Take what they are saying with a grain of salt.

 

Most American women find very few guys outside of hollywood attractive.

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All of the women in this thread who said you're good looking are the same women who wouldn't give you the time of day in real life.

 

Take what they are saying with a grain of salt.

 

Most American women find very few guys outside of hollywood attractive.

 

I wouldn't say that. He's not an awfully bad looking guy. But I would recommend, if he wants something more than a few comments, he best try the real world.

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All of the women in this thread who said you're good looking are the same women who wouldn't give you the time of day in real life.

 

Take what they are saying with a grain of salt.

 

Most American women find very few guys outside of hollywood attractive.

 

Yes, all women lie. Especially random women on the internet who have absolutely nothing to gain by volunteering that they think you're cute.

 

If I were you, I'd just give up now and go straight to bitter. ;)

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If I were you, I'd just give up now and go straight to bitter. ;)

 

 

I think he's already there...

Bejita463 Established Member

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Most American women find very few guys outside of hollywood attractive.

 

I'd ask you to cite your source there, but what I would end up being shown is a picture of something I don't want to see.

PinkToes Established Member

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I'd ask you to cite your source there, but what I would end up being shown is a picture of something I don't want to see.

 

I believe the official stat is 1%. Only 1% of all women find men attractive who aren't Hollywood handsome.

 

Sorry OP, I didn't want to go there. But it just pisses me off when someone asks a straight question and someone else feels the need to crap all over the responses based on his own bitter view of life.

Bejita463 Established Member

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I believe the official stat is 1%. Only 1% of all women find men attractive who aren't Hollywood handsome.

 

60% of the time, women find me attractive every time.

OpenGL Established Member

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I'm just trying to tell the OP how the world really is. Not going to sugar coat it for him.

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I believe the official stat is 1%. Only 1% of all women find men attractive who aren't Hollywood handsome.

 

"So you're sayin' there's a chance?!??!"

USMCHokie Established Member

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I'm just trying to tell the OP how MY world really is. Not going to sugar coat it for him.

 

Fixed your post...

Bejita463 Established Member

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I'm just trying to tell the OP how the world really is. Not going to sugar coat it for him.

 

No. You are trying to tell him how you think it is. Big difference.

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All of the women in this thread who said you're good looking are the same women who wouldn't give you the time of day in real life.

 

Wrong. But thanks for playing we have some wonderful consolation prizes for you...

 

Look. I am a woman and I said what I mean. I meant what I said.

Don't go assuming that I am lying thank you very much.

I don't need to falsely inflate anyone's ego online or anywhere else. That doesn't help anyone.

Truth helps. It hurts sometimes. But it always is the best way to go.

 

The OP is a good looking guy. And yes I would date him IRL if some other things were what I am attracted to as well.

Based upon the pics and his question -- the answer is he is a very good looking man.

 

Oh you know women sooooooo well. Get over yourself! :lmao:

Orchid8 Established Member

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You are a decent looking guy. Not universally attractive but attractive enough. How's that? :)

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Many thanks to all of you for your helpful feedback. They are much appreciated.

 

This is important...and sometimes it takes your friends or a bunch of strangers online to tell you you're doing fine...after that it's just getting over any mental hurdles you might have inside you...

 

It's not just that women like confident guys, but being confident is more likely to put you in positions to attract women...if you are insecure about yourself, then you're more likely to avoid those opportunities altogether that confident guys would otherwise seize...

 

Yea, you'll win some and you'll lose some, but you can't win if you're not in the game...

 

 

The man you described is indeed me. Thank you for pointing out what I have been avoiding to think about. I have long realized that the reason why I have had no relationships thus far in life is not because of who I am, rather it is because of who I think I am. Here I and sorrows sit; Here is my throne, bid kings come bow to it.... How foolish of me.

 

Are you in the USMC? I am going to graduate college this May and I have already signed up to join the Army right after graduation. With some luck, I will be a Ranger carrying out Uncle Sam's will somewhere in the Middle East before the end of the year.

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this thread reminds of that 'military' redhead that started some threads here a while back asking women on here if he was handsome or not rugged enough :lmao:.

 

there were a couple more and most of them were from men.

 

You will always get sugarcoated answers when asking people's opinions about your looks.

 

If the men here want an honest assessment of how they look, go out in public and see how many women turn their heads and gaze lovingly at you. Don't do it with familiar people because they essentially have grown to like/be tolerable to your looks because it matches your personality and disposition.

Satisfaction Established Member

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Wait, what?

 

Due to my having no idea what just happened, my instincts say I should attempt to behave as though I understand with a vague, yet intellectual retort:

NO U.

 

A vague intellectual retort eh? :)You nicked my comment almost word for word :) that's copyright infringement.

 

I said he was cutie and could possibly consider growing out his hair first!! :)

I'll charge you five internets for that. You can pay in installments :)

Bejita463 Established Member

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A vague intellectual retort eh? :)You nicked my comment almost word for word :) that's copyright infringement.

 

I said he was cutie and could possibly consider growing out his hair first!! :)

I'll charge you five internets for that. You can pay in installments :)

 

Oh, heh. I didn't even read your comment to be honest. I didn't want other people's opinions influencing what I said, so I just looked at the pictures, replied, and went about my business.

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Dude, you look fine. Nothing to worry about.

 

It's definitely the way you carry yourself and talk to women. Maybe share some of your experiences to see where you can improve.

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