brown_cow_eyez Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 (edited) Not sure if I should be posting here or not. I've been married for almost 8 years and have two children with my husband. Two years ago we argued and got into a fight where he kicked me and the kids out .. (knowing I was going to my mothers and the kids and I would be fine) Then a few months later he tried to get me to move back home. Being stubborn and not wanting to let him win, or fall back into the same rut we'd been in for 6 years I said no and moved into my parents house. (Insert elevator music) two years later I have decided that maybe I wanted to give up and try to get back together because I honestly admit that I do and have missed him, and its a given that my children miss him. There is only one problem... Hes had a girlfriend for about 6-7 months. I want to approach him about what Ive been thinking but I don't want to hurt my pride.. I'm asking for advice as to.. should I leave him be or should I mention it one time in passing conversation? Edited January 19, 2010 by brown_cow_eyez
scorpmale009 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 in your previous posts, you mentioned you love your BF very dearly...what happened to that, all of a sudden you wanted your H(controlling ,mean,a**holistic) ,sorry that is how you portrayed him(why do you want to be there again..if it was true)...i would say let him be where he is now...
tnttim Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I think you need to answer some questions first. 1. Has he quit drinking? 2. has he changed his controlling ways? 3. Has he showed signs he wants to reconcille with you? The last one is the hardest 4. Are you sure you want to break back into prison?
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