brokenheart1 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I was dating this guy who was hurt from his past. When he confessed he told me to move on however we still hang out from time to time. it's been a while since i've liked someone this much but he gave me an interesting respond when i said, "i'm just waiting for you to heal when I'm going to trick you into dating me" (I said jokingly). he looked at me and told me that I didnt' have to trick him and that i only have to ask..now what?
Satisfaction Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Well if you think he has healed and you want to be with him and you think he wants to be with you then you should go for it. If you have niggling doubts you could just try hanging out with him alot. maybe every couple ofdays and do stuff with him, like pool or tennis or whatever so you can get a better idea of him, ask him about what he expects from a relationship then, when you feel ready ask him
counterman Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Yep, just hang around him for the time being and see if he's healed yet. But then again, it doesn't have to be you to ask. I mean, if he feels that he's ready than why can't he ask? I think if he is afraid to ask than he's either too scared/nervous/traumatised due to his past (thus, he's still healing) or he's just not that into you. Though yes, just continue hanging out and go from there.
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