She won't stop staring at me (on line) after she failed to respond to texts...

[CaspianDreams]

Ok, as some of you may remember, I went out with a pretty cute girl about a week ago (who I met online). The date was alright, but I was pretty curious to see what she'd be like out of the first date context...the problem was there wasn't much physical contact, and she just hauled ass out of my car at the end of the date, giving me a very closed hug without giving me really any chance to respond...so I was torn about what to make of it.

 

Anyhow, the next day she was checking me out online, so I shot her a text saying I had a good time and that I'd like to see her again to get to know her a bit better. No response on her end whatsoever. Granted, I wasn't really asking a question, but still. Needless to say, I basically just dropped her at that point and looked for other optoins. Now, 4-5 days later, she's still checking me out online...what the heck? Should I make anything of this? Or just pretend that it didn't happen? Presumably she's on the fence, or maybe just thinks I'm really hot and likes looking at my pictures.

[OpenGL]

Shes not attracted to you. It's over.

[counterman]

Just move on and ignore it. Don't make anything of it. If she wants to contact you, she will.

[CaspianDreams]

Yeah, I was basically of the she's not interested mentality - I just think it's strange that she keeps checking me out - she's presumably read the profile, looked at the pics, and said, "I'm not going there again" - so why bother? I know, maybe she's an internet stalker...I'm just killing some time before I catch some ZZZs, but the behavior is definitely on the oddball side of normal.

[monkey00]

Yeah, I was basically of the she's not interested mentality - I just think it's strange that she keeps checking me out - she's presumably read the profile, looked at the pics, and said, "I'm not going there again" - so why bother? I know, maybe she's an internet stalker...I'm just killing some time before I catch some ZZZs, but the behavior is definitely on the oddball side of normal.

 

She's not interested. The reason she keeps looking at your profile is so you can give her attention by making you think that she's interested.

[OnlyJake]

Or possibly she's showing your profile to her friends being like "Oh hey this is the really awkward/hot/passive/weird/whatever guy I went out with last week"

[CaspianDreams]

Yeah, she's probably showing me off like a circus toy...now I feel so much better about myself.

[lucy9216]

I would not think much of it at all! I have talked to 2 different guys from online dating and never met either one or even talked to them on the phone, they just never asked me out and stopped contacting me... but for weeks I see that they still keep viewing my profile, why? I really don't care.... but they have not tried contacting me at all so it doesent really matter.

[CaspianDreams]

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking - strange, but means nothing...evil internet stalkers!

[Satisfaction]

She's not interested. The reason she keeps looking at your profile is so you can give her attention by making you think that she's interested.

 

or memorizing your profile as she is still in two minds about you.

But if she can't make up her mind and she is not saying anything back to your text...

[BobSacamento]

Two words:

 

Call her