cogaboy22 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 1 year and 7 months.We are both 22 years old.She is sleeping in our house for at least 2 to 3 times a week.We used to have so much love and care for each other but it seems that it all turn around this past 20 days. we have been arguing on some issues since jan.2 2010 and when we meet on jan. 5 and it seems that she lost all her feelings for me.Since then we rarely meet and she's always reasoning out telling me that she's busy.I admit to her that i am not a perfect boyfriend and promise to work things out hoping that she will give me other chance.Since then she has been very cold in our relationship and she can't even look at my face when I'm talking to her.Sometimes she doesn't responds to my messages and I am always the first one to send her message. She has been very irritated when I kiss her or show her affection. We went out the other night and were happy telling stories but when I asked her about the relationship then the night started to get cold.I send her a message yesterday asking what's going on about our relationship and she said that she knows exactly how I feel and said that she's sorry because there are many things that going on her mind right now and maybe it affects her mood.When I ask her if she has still feelings for me and she said that she is still thinking and hoping that I understand.I'm really confused right now and sometimes I thought of having a third party on her side that's why she suddenly lost her feelings for me.My girlfriend is almost 1 week delayed in her menstruation period and wondering if that affects her mood.what should I do?shall I stop communicating to her and give her time to think?What if my suspicions are true and there is really a third party?
carhill Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 'I'm feeling very distant from you right now and it makes me uncomfortable. It sounds like you need time to sort your feelings out. Let's take a break so you can do that' IMO, if she's 'irritated' when you kiss her or show her affection, I'd make it a nice long break. Work on that 'I admit to her that i am not a perfect boyfriend and promise to work things' stuff while away. It'll help you with her, if that is the path, or with someone else in the future.
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