MySweetie'sGone Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Just a general question for all dumpees... If the dumper can't give a straight reason for the breakup does that mean he/she is lying/hiding something or generally just confused? Is it possible for a person to be THAT confused? It's like the person is trying to justify to themselves the reason, one minute making it sound like you could get back together...& the next seeming set on staying apart.
Love_Awry Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I just dumped someone two days ago, a prior ex, who treated me like crap when we first broke up. We reunited a few weeks ago, and I gave him lame excuse after the next. It's cuz I didn't wanna tell him I'm in love with someone else. Outside situations can make a person confused, but I find people usually say that, so they can nip any potential drama or keep conversations to a short minimum, all in a way to prevent coming off like a big jerk.
DustySaltus Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 There's no way to tell someone you don't want to be with them anymore in a NICE way. If they can't give you a reason it's because the truth hurts: they'd rather be somewhere else than with you. That's enough of an answer for me....
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