Blueberry7691 Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Well, I saw my Ex-bf today as we happened to be driving in the same direction and stopped at a red light. He honked at me to get my attention. He was waving to me. I was caught off guard and didn't wave back but just smiled. We drove our separate ways after about 20 seconds or so. I felt happy to see him but I was not longing to be with him. I was not sad when we parted either. But I felt the urge to text him so I did. I texted him hello and asked him how he was. His response was "I'm ok... U? Looked like ur heading 2 the gym' I texted 'I'm good. Yeah, at gym. Very crowded.' That was the end of our conversation. Not sure if he was waiting for me to text more. I know he never liked to bother me when I was at the gym. After thinking about it, I feel like I'm just over it. I'm not hurting. I don't miss him and although I still do think about him every day, it's not ALL day like before. I think I'm moving on. but then I felt a little bad thinking, when he said he was 'ok' did that mean, not good? I don't know if he's still hurting and I feel bad if he is but there's nothing I can do about it. Thank you all for your support.
gaudi Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 but then I felt a little bad thinking, when he said he was 'ok' did that mean, not good? I don't know if he's still hurting and I feel bad if he is but there's nothing I can do about it. I think if he meant he was "not good" then he should have texted I'm not good. Maybe you're reading a little too much into this though. I mean even if he was feeling down, what would you actually be able to do about it ?? You've said yourself you think you're moving on. You're no longer with this fella. Although I'm sure you are a good personj and would like to help someone who is down. Would it be the best idea ?? I mean, I'm feeling down at the moment, I would absolutely LOVE to hear from my EX, a phone call, or a little text msg. But deep down I know it would be extremely detrimental in the great scheme of things. It would do nothing for my heal but set it back weeks/maybe months and that's not good. Keep on moving I say.
LovelyDaze Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I would absolutely LOVE to hear from my EX, a phone call, or a little text msg. But deep down I know it would be extremely detrimental in the great scheme of things. It would do nothing for my heal but set it back weeks/maybe months and that's not good. Keep on moving I say. Please heed to what gaudi said. Don't text him again. Let it end at that text you gave him. More and more contact will only put you back further than where you need to be.
Author Blueberry7691 Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 I was looking at my cellphone's bill on line and realized he never got my last text. It was sent to some strange # 000002454 (something like that). So I'm thinking maybe that's why our conversation ended early. I just thought that because I was at the gym, he didn't respond. Now I'm thinking he was probably waiting for my response and never got it. Do I text him and tell him what happened or let it be? Kinda feel bad he was waiting and now thinks I ignored him.
Serena2009 Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I was looking at my cellphone's bill on line and realized he never got my last text. It was sent to some strange # 000002454 (something like that). So I'm thinking maybe that's why our conversation ended early. I just thought that because I was at the gym, he didn't respond. Now I'm thinking he was probably waiting for my response and never got it. Do I text him and tell him what happened or let it be? Kinda feel bad he was waiting and now thinks I ignored him. Hey BB, From the interaction you posted regarding your original text to and from him, there was nothing left incomplete or to leave him waiting in regard to an upcoming text message. But . . . since you're the one who dumped him . . . he may very well be waiting and hoping for some sign of reconciliation with you. And if this isn't your intention, contacting him may very well be the equivalent of pulling the scab off his wounded heart.
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