JL911 Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Interesting situation came about this weekend...What would you have done.. Ok. So my gal and I decided to join some friends of mine at a local place Saturday night....This is one of my best friends. Anyways a few of his buddies come along most of which I get along with, and one of which I've always had a bit of distaste for however Im never ignorant or rude to the guy, I just dont like him.... Anyways my lady and I have drinks, dinner and are enjoying the atmosphere when I notice this guy eyeing up my girl...I was like eh, and I let it go...I then caught him again eyeing her up only this time it was kinda creepy. It started to aggrivate and anger me. Then I caught him again and my blood started to boil...I was standing right next to the guy....I maintained my cool and ended up leaving shortly after... These looks werent like wow you're cute and I cant help but look at you...it was more of an evil, almost raping you with my eyes kind of look...He wasnt talking to her nothing just sneering.. My gf and I on the way home talked...She brought it up of how he was a creep and she caught him sneering at her multiple times and it made her a bit uncomfortable, then I was very angry....I wish she would have said something to me earlier... I told her that I was trying to not come off as some kind of possessive jerk and bit my tounge just not wanting to make a scene but told her I caught him and it pissed me off...However now that shes voiced some displeasure in the situation I now feel I have a green light to step in and voice myself should this ever happen again. I called my buddy up after dropping off my lady and was like WTF is this dudes problem...his response was, hes just kinda like that with girls... Guys: What would you have done?...Aside from wanting to cave his head in I just really wanted to say, "ya know Ive caught ya a few times looking at her, and its really starting to bother me the way you look at her, so you are either going to have to stop, leave, or we are going to have a problem." Ladies: How would you have reacted and wanted you man to react to the situation?
Goodin Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Ya know I catch myself checking out girls, and maybe for two long of a period of time, and maybe too many times. I wonder if they think I'm creepy! Anyway, maybe this guy doesn't realize that you guys can see him staring. Someone should tell him and hopefully he will stop.
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