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Ran into some one I dated a couple months ago - ask her out again?


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Hmmm - so I'm leaving something out? Not really intentionally.

 

Lets see - who stopped seing who? Well, that's kind of a two way street - presumably the last time I saw her was also the last time she saw me.

 

Who contact who last? Seriously, I don't remember - I'm tempted to say it was me, largely because she wasn't terribly proactive about contact, but I easily could have missed her message as usually have a phone message backlog and dozens of new e-mails whenever I check. I do know that I didn't really freak out about whoever's turn it was as there were enough other people at that time to keep me busy...hence we just kind of vanished from each others' world.

 

I don't remember the precise details as it was two months ago and I was seeing lots of people at the time...there was a 2-3 week period when I went on 10-12 first dates.

 

The 5-6 dates were scattered over about 1.5 months, not 2 weeks. Went out about once per week, as I was busy and had lots of first dates. As mentioned, I think the number of random people I would see was detrimental to any relationship that could have formed. Regardless of the minimal contact on my part, she kept going out with me - it's possible she just got fed up...no idea.

 

If you had really been interested you would've been looking for her emails/texts/calls. You wouldn't have missed them.

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Yep, I agree with OnlyJake - you don't seem very interested it this lady so just let it go. No need to waste your time and hers.

It is probably better to just concentrate on women you are really into.

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