nobmagnet Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Lowly told my babies he has two GF's. They are in agony i have just spent5 hours trying to calm them down and im in bits. The flippin git. My life with him was a sham! i couldnt cry when my little girl told me about his work mate, She was the reason i wouldnt go to his works parties for 3 years.............he told me i was fruit loop and all the time.............he was f*cking her! big bomb. i hope i feel better tomorrow right now?............ hell on earth. why do i ever think he cant hurt me more?? im an idiot Nobby xx:mad:
Ronni_W Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Hugs NM. We're all "idiots" in our own special and delightful ways...so it's kinda the same as if none of us is an idiot at all! And even if we are, some of us idiots have more dignity, courage, integrity and self-respect than other of them idiots. And that counts for a LOT, right? I hope you feel better tomorrow, too.
Author nobmagnet Posted January 18, 2010 Author Posted January 18, 2010 oh you are a love xxxxxxxxxxx its like a slow train going over me on the track ouch ouch ouch ouch thank you nobbyxxxxx
GrayClouds Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 oh you are a love xxxxxxxxxxx its like a slow train going over me on the track ouch ouch ouch ouch thank you nobbyxxxxx If it is a train then your EX is a big old caboose. If someone who claims to love you is willing to use that love and trust against you, they are the idiots. How little of a person must they be to need that behave to feel good about themselves. Actually it is sad and on good days I will have pity for them. .
sedgwick Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Nob, this dude has issues that have nothing to do with you! It's like he turned into a different person overnight. It just screams mid-life crisis to me...how old is he?
Jeff1962 Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Lowly told my babies he has two GF's. They are in agony i have just spent5 hours trying to calm them down and im in bits. The flippin git. My life with him was a sham! i couldnt cry when my little girl told me about his work mate, She was the reason i wouldnt go to his works parties for 3 years.............he told me i was fruit loop and all the time.............he was f*cking her! big bomb. i hope i feel better tomorrow right now?............ hell on earth. why do i ever think he cant hurt me more?? im an idiot Nobby xx:mad: First off, this guy told your children that he was cheating on you? What is he on drugs or something? Good God. You are not an idiot, you are human and deserve respect. If you don't kick this guy to the curb then I guess you could call yourself and idiot.
deux ex machina Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Lowly told my babies he has two GF's. They are in agony i have just spent5 hours trying to calm them down and im in bits. The flippin git. My life with him was a sham! i couldnt cry when my little girl told me about his work mate, She was the reason i wouldnt go to his works parties for 3 years.............he told me i was fruit loop and all the time.............he was f*cking her! big bomb. i hope i feel better tomorrow right now?............ hell on earth. why do i ever think he cant hurt me more?? im an idiot Nobby xx:mad: No, Nobby - you are just hurting, that's all. HE can own this. Not you. I hope you get enough rest, and don't forget to eat. You need the strength.
Brightmoon Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Nobby, I am so sorry sweetheart. Lowly is lowly indeed.... grrrr.. ((((Hugs))))
HeavenOrHell Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 ((((((hugs)))))) to you honey and talk later xxx
Author nobmagnet Posted January 18, 2010 Author Posted January 18, 2010 hello all, Thank you so very much for responding and being so kind. My kids are pooped today but seem to be more settled. I was soooo tempted to call him last night and if it wasnt for my lovely mates on LS I would have! I am completely deluded to expect any less from lowly as i spent 10 years covering for his narsassist behaviour so i dont stand a chance now he has gone. Even if I had called him to tell him he was wrong to tell the children about his "women" (WTF signals is that sending out??) he just wouldnt understand the backlash. Never has. He is 38 and put it this way........I call him Mr Benn. For thoses of you that werent blessed with the chance to see this wounderful childrens programme i will give you a breif lowdown..........Mr Benn goes to a fancy dress shop and has adventures as a caveman or a cheif or a knight. Basicly he reinvents himself periodicly. Thats what Lowly has always done. He got married to the most beutiful woman in the world, intellegent sweet and adored him. He screwed other women the whole time he was married, treated her with conempt and dispised her. He told, he hated her so much he contemplated cutting her brake pipes!!! WTF (he told me this after I had had a baby with him and it scared the **** out of me) Eventually she asked for a separation so he went back to mummy (see the pattern he is back there agian) any hoo one night he askes to pick up stuff and she said it wasnt conveniet. This annoyed him so he drove over, saw a car out the front so cept round the back and looked through the window. (I love her for this) She was having wild sex on his sofa!!! hahah he was totally devasted couldnt beleive she could do this to him!! (forgetting his behaviour compleatly!!!) im not too sure if you get what i am trying to say apart from he has always done this. I am not the first and I wont be the last. Mid life crisis well is is gonna buy a swanky loft apartment in a city (we live in a farm house with 4 acres) He is selling his landrover dicovery for a small sports car..........and a moped !!!!! Your answer is yes midlife crisis but he always re-invents himself. he is a worm, a git, a terrible person. Nobby xxxxxx
JaneDoe35 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Hey Neet, I thought my husband was the worst!!! Yours is catching up. Two girlfriends? What a loser. He needs two girlfriends to make him feel like a man. And he still falls short. I know it is awful when there are kids involved and you are trying to protect everyone's feelings. Don't let him ruin you. Get up and keep going. I know you can. JD
anne1707 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Mid life crisis well is is gonna buy a swanky loft apartment in a city (we live in a farm house with 4 acres) He is selling his landrover dicovery for a small sports car..........and a moped !!!!! Your answer is yes midlife crisis but he always re-invents himself. Nobby Well just think of how big a pr*** he will look trying to get in and out of his sports car. Decent women will recognise this for what it is, have a good laugh and walk away. Those who stay will only be in it until someone comes along with a better sports car or when he starts going bald, gets a pot belly, or a dodgy hip (very likely getting in and out of that car ). But I do have to put you straight on one thing - leave Mr Benn alone!!! I loved him when I was a kid
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