Stung Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 I love it that he kisses me every day when he's leaving for work, even if I'm in the shower and he has to stick his head in, even on the rare occasions I'm still asleep (he always wakes me up just a little with his goodbye kiss, if I woke up all the way one day and he was gone and he hadn't done this I think I would feel weird about it all day, bereft). I also love the way he kisses me when he gets home. If he's had a long day he kisses me particularly thoroughly, as though he'd been out in the sun for hours and I was a tall glass of cool water. I love the way his stubble sandpapers lightly on my skin when he gets home in the evenings.
Author shadowplay Posted January 20, 2010 Author Posted January 20, 2010 (edited) how he looks when he's sleeping his tattoos his black-rimmed glasses how amazing he is at the guitar how nice he always smells his low tolerance for bull**** and how vocal he is when he dislikes something how honest he is, for better or worse how much he respects my opinion how he tells me he loves me when I say something silly how he never steals the blankets and always makes sure I have enough when he feels that I'm cold how he says "oh baby, you're freezing" and rushes to warm me up with his body or a blanket how he remembers everything I say how the rest of the world melts around him when I'm around, and he focuses his attention solely on me. Edited January 21, 2010 by shadowplay
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 The way he kisses. The way he cuddles (big spooner ). The way he's a TOTAL gentleman - opens doors, pays, makes sure I'm "good." His delicious natural scent. His hot body. I love his intelligence/wit/sarcasm. He has this "voice" that he uses when he's trying to sound innocent or get his way on something - gawd...SO cute. Totally melts me like butter. His hands...wow, his hands - gives fantastic massages and I don't just mean my back. Awesome smile. Caring, giving, considerate. Adorable father to his kids. Complete lack of pretense. Great lover - wow, wow, wow..."he's got a huge talent." LOL
sunshinegirl Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 He feels like home to me. Funny, I said the exact same thing last night when describing my BF to a friend.
Trialbyfire Posted January 21, 2010 Posted January 21, 2010 His strong hands and long fingers, how gentle and tactile he is.The way he wraps himself around me, making me feel so cherished.The way he talks to and about Bump.His giving and sharing nature.His strength, both emotional and physical.The way he treats everyone, with courtesy and respect.His sense of humour and intelligence.His sense of fairplay and ethics.The strength and consistency of his love.After the experience with my first marriage, I never thought I would meet someone like H. Thankfully, I was so wrong.
Author shadowplay Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 This thread needs a revival! It's always nice to hear happy stuff on LS. his warm smile the way he relaxes me when I'm anxious how kind he is to other people his confidence in himself and in me how declarative he is about his likes and dislikes his confident, masculine gestures and body movements
threebyfate Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Great idea! With what's been happening with our pregnancy, I have so many more good things to say about H. He's been understanding and incredibly supportive both emotionally and physically. I've never had any partner who I felt could be relied on, to this level. I've yet to see the bottom of his internal strength, ability and desire to care for those he loves. It appears so effortless for him but I know it's not that easy, so I will never, ever take him for granted. There will be a time where he's going to need my full support and understanding. I will be there for him, no matter what.
Lauriebell82 Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 With what's been happening with our pregnancy, I have so many more good things to say about H. He's been understanding and incredibly supportive both emotionally and physically. Awww, that's so wonderful!!! I hope my fiance is supportive throughout my pregnancy. Fatherhood still kind of freaks him out a tad, but that's because he's not ready yet. But he will be someday!
threebyfate Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Awww, that's so wonderful!!! I hope my fiance is supportive throughout my pregnancy. Fatherhood still kind of freaks him out a tad, but that's because he's not ready yet. But he will be someday!Thanks. H. has quite a few years on your fiance so I'm sure by the time that he's ready, wanting and willing for fatherhood, he'll also step up to the plate.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Wow. Where do I start? Here is a partial inventory of S's lovable traits: I respect and admire him as a human being. He is super cuddly and a little embarrassed about it; he said "that's not a very manly virtue" His voice is completely magnetic to me ... and if he sings, I melt. Kissing him ... transports me! His work ethic seems to come from another era How he admires and respects me for the woman I actually am, not only in relationship to him; his acceptance of my past life and all of my foibles His courage in throwing himself into my "unusual" lifestyle and quietly embracing my friends and family How the negative parts of his life, especially those caused by himself, have been opportunities for growth (pardon the cliche) rather than a free pass for bitterness. His gratitude The way his strengths fortify my weaknesses, and vice versa
Maxxx Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Just found this.... How cool first of all Shes a red head I LOVE IT! The way she will do little things to surprise me. The way she smiles The way she looks at me The faith she has in me The support gives me She is positive about EVERYTHING (I need that I am the negitive one) There are so many more things I could go on and on but....
Stung Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 It's so nice to see this thread revived. I love it when he calls or IMs me from work just because he misses me and wants to know what I am up to, and he does this almost every day. I love the way he gets me my favorite comfort foods when I am sick. I love the way he jingles his keys exaggeratedly when he comes home because he knows the baby hears the keys at the door and gets excited to see his daddy. I love how his ass looks in his jeans.
Woggle Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 She sticks by me through things that would send most people running for their lives.
sally4sara Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 I love the way he knows something about everything. The way he tries to be friendly to everyone. That he is a great dad. The way he will take on or help someone finish a task without whining or attitude or trying to get out of it. That he isn't afraid of what other people will think. That he does care what I think. That he can know way more about something but doesn't act superior when showing what he knows to someone else. That he is kinky! That he is goofy and fun to be around. How appreciative he is. His ornery smile. That he is all man. That he tries to understand a person's point of view even if he doesn't agree with them. How he is an original character. How he doesn't use his past obstacles to excuse him from doing the right thing today and tomorrow. The way he knows the difference between "need" and "want". That he is not rigid in his views or expectations. That he makes sure I know without a doubt that he loves me.
Citizen Erased Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 His eyes. Whenever I look into them I have to kiss him. He smells delicious. When I'm around he can't keep his hands off me. How adorable he is around kids and that they love him. He's so sweet and playful. How tight he holds me in his sleep. He fits me perfectly, in every single way. The heated leather seats in his car. The little surprises he comes up with that are sweet and romantic. I've never had that before and I love it. Like leaving a card in my luggage that made me smile when I found it even though I was incredibly sad. Sigh. More later.
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