Author Orchid8 Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 Lol. It was something unimportant like "Hey, how's it going?". To much time has passed so I have no desire to respond.
sagetalk Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 To be honest, I think you were completely unfair to this guy initially. The fact that he contacted you again that late makes me think less of him. I have made this mistake as well, so I can't be too hard on him. In the future you should give people more space though. What you did was very harsh. Everything can't be your way or the highway. I'm guessing you're very physically attractive, otherwise no one would ever message you back after being treated like that at the beginning of a relationship.
tkgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 a lot of people really don't want to hear the truth and I lot of people can't tell the truth because they'd rather string people along... it's a good boost to their ego.
You'reasian Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 (edited) and alot of people can't tell the truth because they'd rather string people along... it's a good boost to their ego. In some cases, people don't string others along. Something happens and then they decide whether they want to be with that person or not - they go through a period of time where they want to think long and hard and pull back (this is not stringing along) why is this other guy confessing his love for her? etc. why does she say or do these things when she gets drunk? what about when I'm not there? They may try to re-enter the relationship. Something happens. They pull back and eventually they make a clean break. Edited February 14, 2010 by You'reasian
Author Orchid8 Posted February 15, 2010 Author Posted February 15, 2010 To be honest, I think you were completely unfair to this guy initially. The fact that he contacted you again that late makes me think less of him. I have made this mistake as well, so I can't be too hard on him. In the future you should give people more space though. What you did was very harsh. Everything can't be your way or the highway. I'm guessing you're very physically attractive, otherwise no one would ever message you back after being treated like that at the beginning of a relationship. Please explain to me how I was being unfair to him. He blew me off TWICE! When I texted him to apologize for overreacting, he completely ignored me. A month later, he sends me a text to ask how I am doing and I should text him back?? I don't have any ill feelings towards him, I just don't really care to respond at this point. If he was interested in working things out, he shouldn't have taken a month to contact me.
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