ladymistique Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 Not over it yet. Wondering when the day will come.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I am not sure how long it has been - but everyone is different it may be difference for the same person when recovering from different relationships. So have you bbeen doing for you? What will you do today for you? On Tuesday it will be 7 weeks since I last spoke with my ex. We had been together 5.5 years and I was head over heels for him, unfortunately he did not reciprocate. I cannot say I am even close to over it, but I can tell you I am better. I no longer break down sobbing every single day, but I still hurt. I also think the pain is ebbing and flowing now in waves - whereas at the start it was a constant boulder sitting on my chest. So while life still doesn't feel good - it does feel better than even 2 weeks ago. Oh and yesterday I was approved by the rescue to get a new dog - I've already been matched and he should be with me within the next two weeks. That will bring me a long way. So I ask again - what are you doing for YOU?
Untamed21 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 It will happen. I know it's hurting right now. It's been four months for me and I'm still at square one, but I hope and I pray that you are stronger than me and you can get through this. Keep the faith, love. You'll pull through. I know it.
ginyi1111 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 Welcome to the club. How long had the r/ship been? I was told the general rule is one month for each year together. I was with my ex for 10 months but it's been almost 2 months now and i'm still not ok, but im getting better. You will pull through. You just need to talk your friends' ears off.
sedgwick Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I was told the general rule is one month for each year together I always wonder who came up with that. I was with my ex for a year and now it's 30 months later and I'm nowhere near over it!
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