if u have money ppl wnt to be ur freind and hang out with . but if u have no money o

[joel]

if u have money ppl wnt to be ur freind and hang out with .

 

but if u have no money or poor and no one wants to talk to u or be ur friends.

 

what do u think of this comment. true???? debateable. i dont think so ,but not sure how to convey to this argumentative relative who really believe in it

[randall]

Most people couldn't care less if you had money or not. Normal people don't become friends with other people because they have money. People become friends due to common interests and personalities.

 

You've got a lot of posts and quite a few relate to money and perceived social status. You seem hung up on these things. Your posts on these topics go back years as well. You need to get over it.

[Jade 02]

Well when I was with this crack head,we had NOTHING,bumming Crap off of everyone,well I left him to quit smoking crack,and met a man,who had a house on the beach,sliders all around,he made me quit my jiob(says he will take care of me,and he has).

 

Well when I was with the crack head none of the girls wanted anything to do with me,jealousy I guess,as they were heafty crack heads,but still fake hello's,and blah,blah,blah

 

OH ALL OF A SUDDEN,WHEN I WAS WITH THE NEW MAN,OHHHH ALL THESE CHICKS WHI DIDN'T CARE FOR ME ALL OF A SUDDEN WERE COMING TO VISIT ME,BRING ME FRUIT,AND,I am like WTF yall doing here,yall never said hi to me in the past year all of a sudden,I live in this huge house they think I am best friends with them.

 

Hit the f!@#$% road biootches.

 

So I think Joel has a lil point here,that I see clearly.

[JohnnyBlaze]

Men and women alike, some people are gold diggers. It's just the way it goes. But those people aren't friends, and I'd never disrespect my real friends by saying otherwise. Fortunately, the money seekers are easy to spot; they generally don't hide it very well.

[joel]

hmm well i get it from my folks who told me this that is why i always get it in my head bout status and money. they are the ones the mention it to me

[alphamale]

hmm well i get it from my folks who told me this that is why i always get it in my head bout status and money. they are the ones the mention it to me

people of the same socio-economic strata tend to hang out together

[randall]

OH ALL OF A SUDDEN,WHEN I WAS WITH THE NEW MAN,OHHHH ALL THESE CHICKS WHI DIDN'T CARE FOR ME ALL OF A SUDDEN WERE COMING TO VISIT ME,BRING ME FRUIT,AND,I am like WTF yall doing here,yall never said hi to me in the past year all of a sudden,I live in this huge house they think I am best friends with them.

 

Hit the f!@#$% road biootches.

 

So I think Joel has a lil point here,that I see clearly.

 

There's a big difference between people wanting to be friends and people just wanting access to your money.

 

I think Joe wants actual friends and in that case having more money isn't going to help. People without much money have friends, in fact some poorer people have more friends than the rich people I know. Joe has a fixation on thinking his failure with women has to do with money and other status symbols like cars. Just browsing his past posts indicate this.

[randall]

hmm well i get it from my folks who told me this that is why i always get it in my head bout status and money. they are the ones the mention it to me

Yes, I think your parents have done you a great disservice by insisting that your life be measured by how much money you make.

 

Not intending to insult them but they should know not everyone can be a doctor/engineer/accountant. They should have recognised you are more suited to other things. Social status and money help but they aren't the end-all that your parents seem to have made you believe. Your parents seem overly concerned about your social status but it seems more for their own pride than your benefit.

[stillafool]

if u have money ppl wnt to be ur freind and hang out with .

 

but if u have no money or poor and no one wants to talk to u or be ur friends.

 

what do u think of this comment. true???? debateable. i dont think so ,but not sure how to convey to this argumentative relative who really believe in it

 

 

Be happy that these people you speak of do leave you alone. They are not friends but leeches. True friends don't care how much money you have.

[Jade 02]

There's a big difference between people wanting to be friends and people just wanting access to your money.

 

I think Joe wants actual friends and in that case having more money isn't going to help. People without much money have friends, in fact some poorer people have more friends than the rich people I know. Joe has a fixation on thinking his failure with women has to do with money and other status symbols like cars. Just browsing his past posts indicate this.

 

I see what you mean,as it is true,I do have friends who just seek my friendship,I might have missunderstood a lil,and look at all his friends here:), His day will come for the perfect chick for him.

 

A good friend told me to ALWAYS say your broke that way noone bums any off you,and I do that often,even out of the blue,just letting peeps no I am broke. I think all my true friends are in AA,and mabey a handfull out of the AA program.

 

I hope I have siad something to help Joel this time,true friends are far,and few between. Sad.

[stillafool]

I hope I have siad something to help Joel this time,true friends are far,and few between. Sad.

 

 

So True! You are lucky if you can find one good friend in this life.

[citygal1]

Some people just want access to your money and aren't a true friend. A true friend will stick with you. Whether you are rich or a working class person with a modest lifestyle.

[betamanlet]