Thebob Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 How would you want a man to approach you if you had no idea who he was? and what are some signs that a women wants to be approached by you? Thebob
zebracolors Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I can't speak for all women, but if (hypothetically) I was out somewhere where you are suppose to meet other people, I suppose if I wanted to get a guy to approach me, I would of course try to muster up the courage to make eye contact, try to meet his eyes and smile a little but directly at him. (hopefully there would not be foam on my upper lip from the milkshake or something). But thing is one glance does not always mean "hey come over and chat". I guess the most obvious sign might be if she keeps glancing your way, as though trying to make eyecontact, and doesn't seem to be looking past you. If you notice this, all you can do is smile back. If she seems to blush, then yeah you might want to approach and see what happens.
Author Thebob Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 ya some girls glance a lot but come off super B*tchy when you approach them. So I think why the heck does she keep looking at me then? lol Thebob
Satisfaction Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 that kind of behaviour is just a cover sometimes used to cover up nervousness. Just say anything that comes naturally to you. If you can't think of anything to say just think of one sentence. Like i hate waiting in the queue here, or this place does the best burgers, or anything. Sometimes people respond sometimes they don't but just keep trying and people watch, see how other people do it. Talking to people in the street a good way to boost your confidence but its much better, to talk to people who have the same interests as you like in gym classes , painting cooking or whatever. Plus they are much more receptive to conversation and its much less nerve wracking.
counterman Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Yeah, I agree with Satisfaction. Just a generic statement or a comment to get a conversation started and roll from there. Sometimes my nervousness gets in the way and if I'm not clicking with a girl, I'm definitely not gonna get anywhere.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 ya some girls glance a lot but come off super B*tchy when you approach them. So I think why the heck does she keep looking at me then? lol Thebob Maybe she's checking you out, but she's taken. I have that problem where a guy is great eye-candy, but I don't want to give "signals" to come hit on me because I'm in a relationship. I wouldn't say I'd be "bitchy" if he talked to me - but perhaps a little standoffish.
motive2002 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Life is short. If you wait for signs, you may be warming the bench for a while. Chances are very high that you'll be rejected. She could have a boyfriend, or not be looking to meet anyone, or any number of a zillion reasons to not be interested in you. Just try to smile and be genuinely friendly. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
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