tkgirl Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Just wanted to add that speaking of NC.. I once dated someone for 6 months . One day he started going distant and then he called me to tell me that he could never love me , after that he dessapeared. ONE YEAR later, and mind you for one reason or another I changed my cel, I moved homes, changed my email and he somehow managed to get a hold of my mom!! He told her he realized how much he had in me and that he hasnt met anyone like me in that time and that he wanted to marry me ..lol He then asked my mom to please plese help him convince me to talk to him again. My mom told him, that it is his job to repair things and I just told him that sorry, after one year I had moved one. This guys just think that because we are loving , we will be standing at the same spot one year later , even after everything they do. Personally once I move on, I move on, I just dont feel like being with someone who had no problem to leave me behind. I think that's so true.. like we will just jump back into their arms the second they decide they want us back.... I wish I could have been like you TOgirl... I just didn't know how to move on and gave my guy a second.. oh, and then a third chance! thing is he did the same thing every time... he never really appreciated what I had to offer and took it for granted that I'd always be there when he decided he wanted to see me again.... gee, I wonder why he thought that? I learned my lesson though... I'm no doormat... and I never will be again!
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