MARINE_ONE Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 How do I begin to watch my favorite movies and tv shows? How do I watch my favorite sports? I can't even seem to enjoy the things I liked before I met her, let alone enjoy the things we discovered together. I am sorry. Just having a weak moment here. I know we can never be together again, but I can't stop missing her. I can't stop thinking of how little getting to see your kids every other weekend really is. Please god let this pass.
Dorluv Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 So sorry baby, we all have weak moments. It will pass im hoping mine do. My partner has left yet but I can feel him pulling away and i can feel its just a matter of time. Why we had to fall these people who are emotionally available dont know, but one thing I know I wont love anyone like this again , hurts too much. Love freaking hurts. U go enjoy urself thats wat im gonna do this weekend to keep my mind ooff him. and i hope like you it passes. lets laugh at ourself dont we sound silly. lol
Author MARINE_ONE Posted January 17, 2010 Author Posted January 17, 2010 I won't ever love like this again either. I don't want to. I don't want to ever feel like this again. This is the last time I let someone that close to me. Letting someone get to know you just shows them how they can hurt you later.
Dorluv Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 Have A great weekend babe will chat to moorow take care ok. we will be here for u until it passes ok. hugs .
EricaH329 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I won't ever love like this again either. I don't want to. I don't want to ever feel like this again. This is the last time I let someone that close to me. Letting someone get to know you just shows them how they can hurt you later. You're right, you won't love like that again. Next time, it'll be better. It'll be greater. You are hurting because you are remembering the feelings that you had when you were with her. Weren't they great feelings? Why would you not want to feel that again? Because of the pain you feel now? Do you really want to go through life not feeling the highs, because you are afraid of the lows? I understand you are in pain right now. Trust me, I do. I've been in pain for 5 months now. But there will never, ever, be one person that changes my idea of love. Or that allows me to break down to the point of me not wanting to give myself fully to another again. She will get the best of you if you allow her to. Even though you are suffering right now, keep your head held high. She will not break you. She will not tear you down. She will not ruin the wonderful human being that you are. This will pass. There are two outcomes to this scenario. One - You come out of it bitter and full of negativity. Or, two - You learn from this situation, and apply the lessons to the next lucky woman that gets to share your life with you.
Norville_Rogers Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I won't ever love like this again either. I don't want to. I don't want to ever feel like this again. This is the last time I let someone that close to me. Letting someone get to know you just shows them how they can hurt you later. I know the feeling
Author MARINE_ONE Posted January 17, 2010 Author Posted January 17, 2010 I just don't see how I could ever trust someone enough to let them that close to me. I was blind sided by this and never saw it coming. If someone I was married to for 12 years and had kids with could do this to me that means anyone can. I cannot ever go through this again!!!!
EricaH329 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I just don't see how I could ever trust someone enough to let them that close to me. I was blind sided by this and never saw it coming. If someone I was married to for 12 years and had kids with could do this to me that means anyone can. I cannot ever go through this again!!!! I'm sure you also can't see yourself ever feeling good again do you? Or how about being able to concentrate on anything else that's going on besides your heartache? It's normal to not be able to see anything outside of this pain you are going through. I, personally, have never been with someone for 12 years. But I do know what heartbreak feels like. The best piece of advice that I can give to you, is that you should not worry about whether you can or can't give yourself to another person right now. What you should be focused on is getting yourself out of this rut you are in, and moving on with your life. I know it's much easier said than done, but try taking a few weeks and dedicate them solely to yourself. Treating yourself. Learning from this experience. What went wrong, what you could do in the future to improve yourself, and what you really like about yourself. Don't focus on anything else. (Besides your children, of course). This isn't going to be easy. In fact, it's going to be extremely difficult. But if you look around on this site, you'll find people who were in the same position you were in not long ago, and they've managed to get themselves out of the rut they were in and become better, stronger people for it. You will get through this.
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