MARINE_ONE Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Wife and I went and signed papers yesterday. Just a week and a half ago that I found out that she didn't love me anymore and already the papers are signed and the divorce will be final in as little as one month. Cannot believe that 12 years and 4 kids together could end this quickly.
Ronni_W Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Hugs, MO. That sucks huge. My own divorce process was over a (much) longer period of time -- difficult to say if one way is any "better" than the other, though. Wishing you and your kids brighter days ahead.
Soul Bear Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 That must be really shocking to the system, especially as you only found out such a short time ago... BUT...there is a good side, believe it or not The fact that your papers have come through and will be done so fast, helps to speed up your recovery process for you. You know that you can heal and you have no other option but to do it. You are also on the road to, at some point, finding someone who does love you and you love equally as much. I know right now it may be hard to see outside the box and forward towards the sun, instead of the ground and the past, but you will be stronger for all of this, will be a better person and find a side to you that will make your rainy days seem happy and your sunny days something to look forward to. Reassure yourself that this is all for the best,and that you will be happy again, and things will be ok as far as dependents are concerned. You need to tell yourself, and keep telling yourself that things will be ok, you will get through this, that you are strong and deserve lasting love. A little bit of self love never hurt anyone, and will help you immensely. Just need to keep it up.
Author MARINE_ONE Posted January 16, 2010 Author Posted January 16, 2010 Yeah, it is really shocking to the system. Only way I am getting through this is by focusing on loving the kids.
DenverBachelor Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Yeah, it is really shocking to the system. Only way I am getting through this is by focusing on loving the kids. That's a good attitude. Sorry you're going through this. Stay strong for the kids.
Brightmoon Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Sending you love and comfort MARINE. Such a difficult time for you, but you are not alone. You have the love of and for your kids... stay focused on that. Please keep posting. (((hugs)))
Author MARINE_ONE Posted January 16, 2010 Author Posted January 16, 2010 Now I heard from one of my kids that she is planning to move them to florida in the summer??? I don't understand why she is doing all of this.
DenverBachelor Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Now I heard from one of my kids that she is planning to move them to florida in the summer??? I don't understand why she is doing all of this. Get a lawyer if you don't have one ASAP.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 Now I heard from one of my kids that she is planning to move them to florida in the summer??? I don't understand why she is doing all of this. Just you wait. It will become clear soon enough. I would definitely get a lawyer and make damned sure your rights as a father are not going to be trampled on.
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