so_mo34 Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 this guy at work who i've been seeing on/off turned out to be a jerk and was just using me for sex. i really liked him and was heart broken when he was going after this other girl. anyways a couple weeks ago he thought it was ok to grab my ass. i should have said something but i froze up cause i liked him so much. what should i say to him next time he grabs it?
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 I think it's just as important that YOU realize what his grabbing your ass means. It doesn't mean "Hey I'm sorry I used you for sex. I really like you." It means, "Hey I may want to use you for sex again and I'm testing the waters by grabbing your ass. If you don't clobber me, I know you're open to the idea." That should help you know what to say or do.
tigereyes1428 Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 do not accept this - your worth better - he is a knob head who is chancing his luck = explain clearly that the days of him grabbing your ass are gone as he no longer fulfils your needs because you can see him clearly for what he is. - and if he touches you again without your permission i would warn him clearly that your happy to go straight to your employer and his current girlfriend
OceanTropic Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 "Don't touch me". I do it all the time. Men can be such scumbags!
Satisfaction Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I would kill his office plant, or steal his office chair.
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