tkgirl Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 if only karma was true...world doesnt always fall back on someones head sweetie karma is very true my friend... you treat people how you wanted to be treated.. or else! seriously though.. if all you're looking for is to hook-up and nothing more you need to be honest with these women you pick up before you hit the sheets with them! otherwise you cannot whine about it later how these women end up wanting more... it's how most of us are wired... we just don't like feeling used. But don't think that being upfront about what you want will ruin your chances for a ONS. I've been known to indulge in a fling or seven but I knew beforehand that's all it was and I didn't get attached... they can be kind of fun and are pretty liberating actually!
sagetalk Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 karma is very true my friend... you treat people how you wanted to be treated.. or else! Justice does not simply exist in this life. I truly believe that if someone does not get justice in this life, they will face it when they die.
sagetalk Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 They are the same women who dump the nice guy who did want something more than just a fling because there was no passion. You are correct, these same women probably do treat nice guys like crap, but that's still no excuse to treat these women this way. If they want a relationship then the OP probably led them on. If tells them, this is one night don't expect anything else, then they knew and have nothing to complain about. Guys that just want to use women for sex are very appealing to women.
Woggle Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 You are correct, these same women probably do treat nice guys like crap, but that's still no excuse to treat these women this way. If they want a relationship then the OP probably led them on. If tells them, this is one night don't expect anything else, then they knew and have nothing to complain about. Guys that just want to use women for sex are very appealing to women. If it works for the OP why shouldn't he do it. If women do not want to be treated this way they should stop rewarding this behavior in men.
tigereyes1428 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 woggle t clearly is not working for the OP or he would not be on here moaning about being such a stud that he cant shake off all the woman...... and i noticed he never answered my questions - why does he give out his number if he wants no contact etc. In my opinion he if full of SHi*
Author Choboto Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 woggle t clearly is not working for the OP or he would not be on here moaning about being such a stud that he cant shake off all the woman...... and i noticed he never answered my questions - why does he give out his number if he wants no contact etc. In my opinion he if full of SHi* 1) im not moaning. i was just asking if there was like some unwritten social rule, that you were suppose to call or something i was missin. or if women didnt think the bars/parties were for hook ups. I know how to ignore a text... and i didnt say i was a stud. I fail more times than i succeed when i do decide to approach women. cuz after one incident, i figured it was safest to atleast give it if they ask, so i dont have to deal it again.I dont give it out, they ask for it.
Author Choboto Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 Why not just give out a fake number? im usually tired by that point... and not thinkin. tend to lose most cognitive functions when im tired.
Woggle Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 im usually tired by that point... and not thinkin. tend to lose most cognitive functions when im tired. Be more on point then.
Author Choboto Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 Be more on point then. yes sir .
meerkat stew Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 People who have a ONS and are disappointed when more doesn't result are foolish. People who expect that there should be some "disclosure" that a ONS is just casual sex are deluded. If they are willing to engage in casual sex with a stranger just met, then it is up to -them- to lay out any personal added ground rules before the sex, not the other way around.
tigereyes1428 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 well again if you had been honest about not wanting to see them again - they would not ask for your number, no one would get hurt, you would not have to give out fake number and mislead anyone - its not rocket science here really lol while at bar explain what your offering - its the only fair way.. and then good luck to you both for agreed action lol
Author Choboto Posted January 19, 2010 Author Posted January 19, 2010 well again if you had been honest about not wanting to see them again - they would not ask for your number, no one would get hurt, you would not have to give out fake number and mislead anyone - its not rocket science here really lol while at bar explain what your offering - its the only fair way.. and then good luck to you both for agreed action lol that just complicates things unnecessarily. I got what i needed from this thread. thanks for the concern tho.
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