Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 18, 2010 Author Posted January 18, 2010 <high fives pizzaman!> what will your parents say? They will ask, "can she still have kids?" Ok now low! HAHAH too SLOW! Ya! I don't even know what they would think. Would it bring shame?!?
Author Pizzaman81 Posted January 18, 2010 Author Posted January 18, 2010 Are you spending too much time on BART? I commute to work on BART daily, and when i go to the gym i use BART because I go to Club One and it's a bit farther.
allina Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 I commute to work on BART daily, and when i go to the gym i use BART because I go to Club One and it's a bit farther. I think there is large concentration of older hotties of BART, they put my ass to shame each morning when I oversleep and don't have time to get ready. I think that there's nothing wrong with you being interested in older women, why not just enjoy??
threebyfate Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 have you looked at the bodies of 19 year old girls today? their legs, buts, and skin?Have you seen the Esquire clip of Kate Beckinsale? If not, go to youtube and type in beckinsale esquire. She's 36, turning 37 this year, AND has had a child. She would kick any 19 year old body and face, onto the next planet.
TheLoneSock Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Have you seen the Esquire clip of Kate Beckinsale? If not, go to youtube and type in beckinsale esquire. She's 36, turning 37 this year, AND has had a child. She would kick any 19 year old body and face, onto the next planet. Beckinsale is one in a million and unattainable. 19 year old girls are prevalent and very attainable.
Balthazar Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 actually it's a win-win because the guys (like yourself) that only want to be with younger women.. why? because they might have slightly tighter bods and are less experienced and probably more gullible? well you can go with your bad selves and keep chasing those young chicks. I'll take the guys that can look beyond the superficial stuff... that appreciate a women's mind, strength, experience and everything else us "older women" have to offer! In my book, stating your preferences, whether they are for older or younger men or women, is OK. I won't come out and call a person "superficial" because they are getting laid with someone younger. I will just understand that they are acting on attraction..which is their right. With that in mind, let me attempt to translate your post from Womanese to plain English. "Less experienced" means they have slept with fewer guys...this is probably better not worse! "Gullible" means they are more innocent, care-free and carry less emotional baggage....also good in my book ...as for "a woman's mind" I have found that a lot of them have good minds in their mid 20's too....in any case, the ones that were trouble in their 20's are probably trouble in their 30's too. Concerning your reference to the "superficial", well there is a multi-billion cosmetics industry that seems to reinforce the idea of women wanting to stay youthful looking rather than age....do you think they got it all wrong? Furthermore, you conveniently sidestep the issue of natural programming. Men are biologically hardwired to appreciate youthful women...and you gals know this and understand it to your very core... So hey...don't give me that "stronger,better" routine. Save it for some guy who doesn't know the score... What I will agree with is that it is a win-win situation!
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 actually it's a win-win because the guys (like yourself) that only want to be with younger women.. why? because they might have slightly tighter bods and are less experienced and probably more gullible? well you can go with your bad selves and keep chasing those young chicks. I'll take the guys that can look beyond the superficial stuff... that appreciate a women's mind, strength, experience and everything else us "older women" have to offer! Gawd, this is funny. I'm 29. Dating a 43-yo. I know for a fact that he appreciates my mind, sense of humor, intellect, personality moreso than my body. Because honestly - my body is not that great (IMO). I honestly thought you looked better in the zoo pic than I did. Let's not get carried away by stereotypes, peeps. It's silly. The last guy I dated was only a year older than me, and the guy I'm dating now puts that guy's body to shame.
Balthazar Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Gawd, this is funny. I'm 29. Dating a 43-yo. I know for a fact that he appreciates my mind, sense of humor, intellect, personality moreso than my body. Because honestly - my body is not that great (IMO). I honestly thought you looked better in the zoo pic than I did. Let's not get carried away by stereotypes, peeps. It's silly. The last guy I dated was only a year older than me, and the guy I'm dating now puts that guy's body to shame. You make many valid points...plus you make 'em in a really great way!
pyroguy Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Have you seen the Esquire clip of Kate Beckinsale? If not, go to youtube and type in beckinsale esquire. She's 36, turning 37 this year, AND has had a child. She would kick any 19 year old body and face, onto the next planet. Yes, of course, and you missed my point. I was just merely pointing out how the media and some women portray older/married men today. I was just illustrating how older men aren't always bald, lawn mowing, loveable dolts, who have to beg their wife for sex or have sex coupons. And, that if we wanted to get critical, we could point out the attractiveness of younger women too..and the possible flaws of older women. When I see the 19 year old I mentioned, as good as she looks, I'm most likely more sexually attracted to her mother
tkgirl Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Gawd, this is funny. I'm 29. Dating a 43-yo. I know for a fact that he appreciates my mind, sense of humor, intellect, personality moreso than my body. Because honestly - my body is not that great (IMO). I honestly thought you looked better in the zoo pic than I did. Let's not get carried away by stereotypes, peeps. It's silly. The last guy I dated was only a year older than me, and the guy I'm dating now puts that guy's body to shame. of course! I was no way wanting to offend my younger sisters out there! BTW and I think you are a way cool 29 yo that seems to really have it together. And your bod is just fine my sweets! and that pic at the zoo? that was the camel not me! to everyone else I have way more to say on this topic (you've been warned) but I'm off to work now... oh, and I get to see my little cutie 30 yo.. that always makes the day more fun!
Goodin Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 I'm all about older women! In my experience they are more approachable, not bitchy, know how to have a good time and be friends, and are comfortable in the sack. I'm 31. Women in their 20's look too young to me and I won't even go for them anymore. I like an older woman's initiative as well. They let you know that they are into you...no games, or playing hard to get.
threebyfate Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 Beckinsale is one in a million and unattainable. 19 year old girls are prevalent and very attainable.You make it sound like the average 19 year old girl is hot stuff. I beg to differ and am not doing so to be a catty female. I feel the same way about 19 year old men. Both aren't fully formed yet, haven't matured into their minds or bodies, hence tend to be awkward. But if I recall correctly, you're pretty close in age to them, or at least within 5 years, so I can understand the attraction. If you were in your late twenties and older, I would sincerely be concerned. Yes, of course, and you missed my point. I was just merely pointing out how the media and some women portray older/married men today. I was just illustrating how older men aren't always bald, lawn mowing, loveable dolts, who have to beg their wife for sex or have sex coupons. And, that if we wanted to get critical, we could point out the attractiveness of younger women too..and the possible flaws of older women. When I see the 19 year old I mentioned, as good as she looks, I'm most likely more sexually attracted to her mother Well I don't portray older men like that since they're what I've always been attracted to. I just turned 35 and my husband is 37. He's the hottest thing since sliced bread to me. Previous to him, the vast majority of men were anywhere between 5 - 10 years older. The only younger man I've ever dated, was 6 months younger and he was emotionally and intellectually too young for me. I sincerely don't understand substantial age gap relationships, unless the two individuals are in the same stage in life, sincerely love each other as equals and aren't compensating. I can only think of two couples, who are like this. Beyond that, it's struck me as some form of compensating, from both sides.
tkgirl Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I'm all about older women! In my experience they are more approachable, not bitchy, know how to have a good time and be friends, and are comfortable in the sack. I'm 31. Women in their 20's look too young to me and I won't even go for them anymore. I like an older woman's initiative as well. They let you know that they are into you...no games, or playing hard to get. all right Goodin! you know what's up... I think I love you! seriously though... I've thought about this thread a lot today...yep, kind of a boring day at work. But about my little "rant" I posted earlier... the one towards the guys that want to go for younger women.. well, I decided I really don't care that much. They are attracted to what they are attracted to.. it's totally their preference.. and I do get the appeal of a younger women, I really do! It's just the guys that only want to date younger women (I'm talking late teens to early twenties) like it's a pre-requesite for them or it's a no go... well honestly, those guys creep me out... so it's no loss to me if that's what they want to go for because they are probably not the type of guy I'd be interested in anyways... got it? ok carry on friends...
dazzle22 Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 You make it sound like the average 19 year old girl is hot stuff. I beg to differ and am not doing so to be a catty female. I feel the same way about 19 year old men. Both aren't fully formed yet, haven't matured into their minds or bodies, hence tend to be awkward. But if I recall correctly, you're pretty close in age to them, or at least within 5 years, so I can understand the attraction. If you were in your late twenties and older, I would sincerely be concerned. Well I don't portray older men like that since they're what I've always been attracted to. I just turned 35 and my husband is 37. He's the hottest thing since sliced bread to me. Previous to him, the vast majority of men were anywhere between 5 - 10 years older. The only younger man I've ever dated, was 6 months younger and he was emotionally and intellectually too young for me. I sincerely don't understand substantial age gap relationships, unless the two individuals are in the same stage in life, sincerely love each other as equals and aren't compensating. I can only think of two couples, who are like this. Beyond that, it's struck me as some form of compensating, from both sides. What is a "substantial age gap" in your opinion? (Ha, ha, trick question....)
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 that pic at the zoo? that was the camel not me! What did you just call me?
burning 4 revenge Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 What is a "substantial age gap" in your opinion? (Ha, ha, trick question....) twelve years
Clep Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 older women are the best...they leave you alone, they're good in bed, they don't care if you're dating someone else. they don't have a lot of decent guys to choose from (age wise) so if you fall in that category you'll get a lot of "action" from older chicks. they are also really casual and relaxed cause they have been there done that...all you have to do is show them a good time. Well I am 40 and I do care if the guy I am dating is dating someone else. I regularly have men in their twenties and thirties coming on to me so I have lots of decent guys to choose from (age wise).
Clep Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 I'm all about older women! In my experience they are more approachable, not bitchy, know how to have a good time and be friends, and are comfortable in the sack. I'm 31. Women in their 20's look too young to me and I won't even go for them anymore. I like an older woman's initiative as well. They let you know that they are into you...no games, or playing hard to get. That was well put.
Goodin Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 What is a "substantial age gap" in your opinion? (Ha, ha, trick question....) Yeah I want to know too! I'm thinking >10 years?
donnamaybe Posted January 19, 2010 Posted January 19, 2010 Older women aren't like fine, aged wines, they are like vinegar. It's not nice to talk about your mom like that!
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