sedgwick Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I threw away all his stuff, deleted all photos and emails off my computer, and took his clothes to the Goodwill the day he left me. I do not regret it. I don't want reminders of someone who never cared about me but lied and said he did.
Tasha1675 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I have put all the letters my ex wrote to me, all the presents he gave me and the hundreds of photos we took on the amazing holiday we had right before we broke up in a box and have put them in the loft. He was a huge part of my life and we loved each other so much and I know if I throw them away I will regret it one day. Although I am not there yet, I know one day I will look back on the time we had together with fond memories.
Tasha1675 Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 So what I meant to say is - I wouldn't burn them. I'd just hide them away out of sight for now. Good luck
DenverBachelor Posted January 17, 2010 Posted January 17, 2010 I have put all the letters my ex wrote to me, all the presents he gave me and the hundreds of photos we took on the amazing holiday we had right before we broke up in a box and have put them in the loft. He was a huge part of my life and we loved each other so much and I know if I throw them away I will regret it one day. Although I am not there yet, I know one day I will look back on the time we had together with fond memories. That's a very healthy mindset. Knee-jerk reactions are usually regretted far down the road.
Author Pentel Posted January 17, 2010 Author Posted January 17, 2010 im still wondering if i should do it or not, if feel that if i do it i will feel better, right now i dont have any feelings of hate, or anything like that, i just think "why do i want them?, i already have the memories in my mind",
HappyAgain Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 im still wondering if i should do it or not, if feel that if i do it i will feel better, right now i dont have any feelings of hate, or anything like that, i just think "why do i want them?, i already have the memories in my mind", If you want to remove them but aren't 100% sure, pack them away and leave them for another day. Since you are still asking yourself if it's right to do or not - you're not ready yet - don't do anything drastic for the moment.
nobmagnet Posted January 18, 2010 Posted January 18, 2010 i say wait. put them away. i am so angry at my ex i wont go there but my kids will one day need to see. I burnt every photo of am my eldests dad. i regret it now.16 years on. just the thought of my ex's face makes me really mad but in time............i dont kknow. Yeah wait if you can nobby x
goatboytone Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I say burn. This one girl broke my heart so bad that I burnt everything that had any association with her, including the mattress we slept on together.
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