Author Itzo Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 Nice to know i'm not alone. With my first ex, it was him having another girlfriend and the suffering that caused me that sparked the emotional intensity, which lasted into our relationship. Its like I need to 'suffer' to care for a man. If he is hard to get/mean and THEN nice, I care for him. Otherwise I don't care about him at all. Its a blank. My last ex we'd have sex and chat and i'd feel nothing. Just want to get away and go home. I really wish I didn't need that 'drama' to like a guy....I don't understand why I do. I think I find men/relationships boring unless you inject some drama into it. I would say this is childish/immature but yet I am also immediately put off of players/bad boys/idiots so really...I think I am just a cold-hearted loner lol! See the bolded sentence within the post. Why you are injecting drama into the situation every time? This is because you do not find challenge in your relationship. You test your partner for endurance being around other women. Because you do not want him to leave you, and he has to be strong enough for ya to resist other female's attaks or female's influences ... You are not attracated to a man, who is a wussy, and predictable .... since he's hard to get, you are in piece with yaself to move on with him.
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