GoSeahawks77 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Hi. There's a girl I like a lot and I'm not sure how to approach this situation. The girl and I have known each other sort of for a while. We knew each other when we were little, her family moved away for about 10 years, and now the family is back. She and I see each other weekly at a church that both our families visit. She's sort of quiet in general, but nice to me when we talk. She's single too and she never had a boyfriend before. Sometimes at church, she'll glance over at me when I'm not facing her way. I'm not sure if that means anything though. I would like to at least go out with this girl a few times and get to know her better. Her personality seems sweet and she looks nice. One problem though is that her parents are pretty protective and hesistant to let her date, even though she's 21. She's a good girl too and I don't know if she'd want to cause problems with her family. Another problem is that she's busy a lot with school and family. I do get a slight vibe though that she's a bit lonely and might want to have a boy in her life. I've never really asked out a girl before, so I'd be grateful if you could give me some advice on what I should say and how I can make her feel comfortable to go out. Whenever I'm around her, I feel shy and nervous to the point where I don't say much and act a bit distant. SO I think she might mistakenly think I don't like her. I'm a nice guy though, I act respectfully with her, I think I look decent (5ft11, slightly muscular, athletic, well dressed), and I am pursuing college. So I think I'm okay guy overall. I know I am sometimes lonely and I'd feel happy if we could be together. Even if we were just hanging out as close friends, it'd be cool. I just need to be able to interact with her to the point where she doesn't feel like I'm too pushy or coming on too strong, but where she realizes I have feelings for her and want to spend a little time together.
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