justinsane Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Ok heres the scenario.. Im 32 and she's 19..i know i know i hear the sighs already... When we first met i thought she was the one for me but I knew she was only 19 so I swore to myself I would only stay friends. I kept cool with it for a few weeks but turns out this girl is my soul mate..corny I know and coming from me thats huge cause ive never been in love in my life..I pushed her away as much as i could be she was the one that made the first move so it was hard for me to resist..she even wanted to have sex but i was the one that told her not to take thing so fast..lol and coming from me THATS HUGE. So we were both head over heals for eachother and eventualy we did but i only waited a few days and finaly did the nasty..we were seeing eachother for about a month and things started to flaky..We wernt seeing eachother as much and she broke it off with me because of my drinking..apparently.. We still sort of stay friends because we are alot alike and i know shes still very attracted to me..the thing is she the kinda girl that always does the right thing moraly and if its somthing she belives in she aint gona break that just because of her hormons. Its been about 6 mons or so now and through that time we've had some fights..me beeing jelous of her bf's yata yata..ive tried not talking to her for long periods of time but it never seems to work..she always end up talking to me and i just fall into it and play be the nice guy and talk back(msn,calls,texts) She has a bf now and she tells me she not totaly happy with him and we saw eachother the other night..its an energy that u cant put into words..when we're with eachother its like fireworks. Thing is shes not the kind of person to dump somone just for her benifit, shes very unselfish and so am I. I know that sooner or later we are going to end up back together but id rather it be sooner than later lol..she really did a number on me..I totaly confessed my love for her and hours of bla bla just baby **** and I feel kinda imbarassed about it but at the same time im kinda glad i got it out.. so as of now she knows im insanly in love with her and i would do anything for her..so how do i keep from being jelous and try to just be happy for her when shes with somone else? I wana get them to break up but how do I do that without being selfish? we are going out tonight to an AA meeting I told her I would go with her and I dont think I would have gone for anyone else but her..how do I handle this? I know most of you are gona say well hey now shes 19 and shes probly gona want to experience other relationships and what not and its probly not gona work out..but i dont wana hear that lol..i just wana know how to get her back..
sean1970 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 we are going out tonight to an AA meeting I told her I would go with her and I dont think I would have gone for anyone else but her..how do I handle this? She is going for her issues or yours?
Author justinsane Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 meh i dono..u could right but thats why she broke up with me in the first place..she a mon sober now and ive never been to an aa meeting she jus tryn to help..i think it could be the oposite and she wants to see me sober b4 she steps into anything again..dono if i can stop drinkn but its worth a shot going to these things to impress her anyway.. the thing im realy taken with though is her willpower and strength..ive never seen this b4 in somone that age or for that matter anyone b4..she is alot stronger than me..well not physical strength haha she like 95lb but u know wat i meen..one of my friends told me if u wana get somone out of the picture u gota be in the picture more..so i think thats good advice to take..
dreamer84 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 you story sounds close to mines she was 18 and i was 23...soul mate yada yada yada...made her wait yada yada yada...anyway, she dont know what the hell she wants 19 year olds change significant others like underwear.... and yeah...guess what? is in with someone else...
Author justinsane Posted January 18, 2010 Author Posted January 18, 2010 ya actualy that worked before..sux that people have to play these little games gut if its gotta be done its gotta be done i guess..
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