johnnyo Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 My GF of 4 years broke up with me a week and a half ago. the week I was going to ask her to marry me (hell we looked at rings together last month - she even picked one out that i bought later). Says I am the perfect guy but she is having problems with sexual attraction. Last nite we went to Pizza for her brothers b-day with her dad and mom too. I am 39 she is 27 by the way. At the table she puts her head on my shoulder, rubs against me and puts her arms around me. and then i dropped her off at her house and we gave each other some lite kisses. what does this all mean???
McGrupp Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 so she said "it over?" she said "she needs space" she said "she need to find herself"? something like that? then its over. then its time for you to grab your balls and walk away and not to hang out with her while she a) waits for someone else to come along b) tries to appease her guilt and lonliness. walk away. you still love her? then walk away. become a challenege not a doormat. demand more respect for yourself. Says I am the perfect guy but she is having problems with sexual attraction thats painful man. good luck
HeavenOrHell Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Problems with sexual attraction? You mean she doesn't find you sexually attractive, does she feel attracted to others?
gaudi Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I didn't understand the sexual attraction bit either. I assume she's referring to you though. Take what McGrupp said and run with it. Leave her to it. She'll soon realise what she's lost.
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