fresh-one Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I was with this girl for 4 years. She dumped me about 4 months ago. Since the breakup there has been zero contact. Out of the blue this weekend i wake up to a text message that says "happier now?". We texted back and forth for a while. Basically she went on about her new boyfriend whos in the navy, they were to gether 3 weeks after she broke up with me and then he had to go back to the boat and that when he gets home in 6 months there moving to a naval base in florida (all her family is here in NJ). So any way she tells me that she wants to be friends because weve been threw to much to ever loose eachother. Then outa now where she tells me she wants to come over and have me hold her cause she's lonely. So like a typical guy i say sure come over in an hour. So about 2 hours later she texts me and tells me she cant do it cause she doesnt want to hurt her boyfriends feeling or do anything to loose him. so i say no biggie thats not what friends are supposed to do anyway. so about two days go by and i saw someone hit by a car so i texted all my friends tellin em about it, i figured since she wants to be friends id tell her too, but shes the only one that didn't answer. So im wondering did she only ask to see me so she could get a yes and shoot me down for a self esteem boost? And why say you wanna be friends and then ignor a person? Whats with the mind games and why even contact me? i mean she dumped me u know
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