Brightmoon Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Guys, I need a hug.. or something.. I am just not coping today at all. Can't stop the tears. Wish I could go home and weep there. My life is a mess and it can only get worse. Very depressed. Thank you in advance.
acac2323 Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Hang in there...I wish I could give you a hug!!! Sometimes those help a great deal...There are many people better than I to set you on a path of feeling better...I know its day by day...We are here for you Brightmoon...
Catseye8 Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 *hugs*, Brightmoon. Sound like you're having a really awful time, but I'm sure it's not true that things can only get worse - if you're as low as this, then there are many, many ways that things can get better. I hope that starts happening soon.
MARINE_ONE Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I know this might not help you, but I am right where you are right now. I am less than 2 weeks into this. I have lost my wife and 4 kids. Just know that you are not alone!!! I know it feels like it. It sure feels that way to me. I know that at times it will feel like all aspects of your life are crazy. Just try to take it a day at a time, or an hour, or even a minute. When I cry today I know I will think of you and know that I am not alone either. Please stay strong!!
Elizabrary Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I feel the same way too- especially since he is staying with my neighbor. I feel like I will never feel better, never get out of this. But we have to believe if we stay strong and focus on ourselves we will get better. Having LS helps!
Author Brightmoon Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 (edited) Thank you so much acac, Catseye and MARINE..Elizabrary(((hugs))) You have made me feel so much better and less alone... (I do have fiends and family, but you always do feel so alone when you are very low.... ) It means a lot.. Eliz, yes, thank God for LS.. I draw so much comfort from it and laughs too. Hope things improve for you soon too. MARINE... I am so sorry that you are without your wife and kids. My issues are nothing compared to that. I cannot express how much I appriciate you taking the time to comfort me, when you must be feeling so devastated. I hope you stay strong too ((hugs)). Edited January 14, 2010 by Brightmoon
GrayClouds Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 (edited) So lets hear a bit more about what is going on. What are is the major things that is putting in in this emotional place? Lets talk it out. We may not have any easier answers but getting it out helps, an who know maybe one of the LSers will come up with a good idea. As they say even a blind squirrel can find a nut now and then Edited January 14, 2010 by GrayClouds
HeavenOrHell Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 ((((((hugs))))) you're certainly not alone hun, I'm going through a bad phase and wondering if I will feel better again, it's been 6 months now
canadaman111 Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 You need to find an outlet. Whether you talk on here or to friends or family it will make you feel much better.
now_what Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Sending lots of hugs and positive energy. What helps me when I am feeling really down is to recognize that the feeling will pass. That's not to say it won't come back again, but if you realize that you will not feel this way forever it does help. And I know, sometimes you think you will always feel this way, but trust me, you won't. There will be better days.
Zeegagge Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I am so sorry, I've been where you are, and I know it's terrible. Just hang in there as best you can. I didnt beleive it either, but eventually I came out of it, not just ok, but better. Stronger. Faster. Ok I wasnt the bionic man but you get the idea, I was close! If you want someone to talk to you can hit me up on AIM, hoopiguy42. Actually anyone could, without my ex around, what do I have to do but talk?
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