prsawyer Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Recently this guy where I work at and I know he likes me.How much I do not know. Because he does the basic flirting starring and now when were alone he face lights and has . He now has moved closer into my personal space and makes a lot of opportunity to be near me especially during lunch he now sits across from me. Before we would always talk and even joke around even though we do not work together. He now acts and treats me different than how he acts around the other girls in the office. Because he does not have a problem talking to them when everyone is around. He just would not talk to me but I am the same way since I have now developed a crush on him. I am now starting to warm up around him talking to him and even flirting when no one is around. I am so shy sometimes I do not know what to do maybe he is thinking the same way. I know we are in a working environment sometimes he is busy and there are days I am busy also so we do not always talk or flirt.However the only time is when were alone and that does not happen too often,But when were are alone he flirts a lot with me. We both hide it around the other people in the office. I do not want anyone to know and it seems he is the same way. I somehow get the feeling some of his co-workers do know. He is outgoing around everybody else but acts shy towards me . On days were not alone I catch him starring at me from across the room and I act the same way. Should I continue talking with him and see where it goes since it has not been going on for too long? Just wait and see what happens by taking things slow. I just do not want to go too slow for him to loose interest me.
Angel1111 Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I guess I'm a little confused as to why you think you need to do anything. If he's interested, he can ask you out. He probably acts differently around you because he doesn't want people at the office to start gossiping. People pick up on attraction really fast, so he's smart to keep it cool. But you may not know all the circumstances of his life. He may have a gf or something, or there may be some other reason he's not asking you out. I don't know what his situation is, but I think it would be a mistake for you to do anything. Let him figure it out.
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