DarkestChapter Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I am in a new relationship right now with this unbelievable cute girl and things cannot be going any better so far. We've been dating for about a month and a half now and we've gotten very physically and emotionally intimate in a short period of time. Now that school has started though, I'm seeing her atleast 4 times a week since she is in two of my classes in university. On school days we see each other for about 2 hours and when we go out (atleast once or twice a week) we see eachother for about 6 hours or more at times. Do you guys think it's unhealthy and not beneficial for us to see eachother this much? I'm really loving this feeling of infatuation I have towards her and I want it to last as long as possible. I'm scared that if we see each other too often we may get bored of each other in time.
sagetalk Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Depends. If you are seeing her that much because it's fun and that's what you want to do, great. If it's because you're affraid she will find another guy if you don't, trouble.
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I see my partner every day, and have done for the past 5 years or so.... I'm not sure what your point is.... Are you saying you don't think you can sustain the passion and excitement? Because you're right. But you can sustain the relationship in all kinds of different ways. Ask your parents how they did it....
Author DarkestChapter Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 Depends. If you are seeing her that much because it's fun and that's what you want to do, great. If it's because you're affraid she will find another guy if you don't, trouble. No, I am seeing her that much because we want to and because we have the same class together 4 times a week. I am not worried about her being more attracted to another guy... I am worried if seeing her that much a week will make us bored of each other and make this relationship lose its intensity.
skydiveaddict Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 It's not like you're with her everyday, all day long. I think you're doing it just right
USMCHokie Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 easy question....... no I agree. Seeing each other too much may seem ok at first, but it may lead the both of you to being consumed by the relationship, where you lose sense of yourself and your own life...it was one of the downfalls to my most recent relationship... Find the balance and remember to do things on your own as well.
Author DarkestChapter Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 Alright cool. Thanks for the help so far everyone. I guess this was sort of a silly question, but I just want to preserve this feeling of passion and excitement I get when I see her.
skydiveaddict Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Alright cool. Thanks for the help so far everyone. I guess this was sort of a silly question, but I just want to preserve this feeling of passion and excitement I get when I see her. not silly at all.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Alright cool. Thanks for the help so far everyone. I guess this was sort of a silly question, but I just want to preserve this feeling of passion and excitement I get when I see her. Yeah sure it may be fun now since the relationship is still new and the feelings are exhilarating, but then you'll end up feeling very smothered. I predict that in a month or two's time you'll come on here and post why you feel like the relationship is becoming stagnant. Progress with ease, not jumping right in just because it makes you feel good.
TheLoneSock Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Do you guys think it's unhealthy and not beneficial for us to see eachother this much? If it's a lot of time, every day - yes. She's your girlfriend not your wife.
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