Confidence blow and trust

[Feel so lost]

I had been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. She told me that she could not be with me due to my religion and that she needed to go out with someone of the same religion so she instantly broke up with me.

 

Three weeks after the break up, i found out that she had been playing with two different guys of different religion to her.

 

I confronted her about this, and she admitted the truth to me.

 

Now, she says shes wants to be friends and leave it at that.

 

Also, recently i have been suffering from hair loss. I found out from my friend that behind my back she had been saying she really didnt like my hair loss.

 

So question for the ladies, should i consider surgery or does a bald head look appealing.

 

Also, to anyone, should i be friends with my ex, because in all honesty i forgive her and love her with all of my heart.

 

Thanks everyone.

[TaraMaiden]

No, do not consider surgery, because it's a massive waste of money and in time, hair transplants look ridiculous.

Two, cut your hair really short. An awful lot of celebrities are losing their hair, and shave close to hide it. Bald is sexy, it seems.

Three:

Do not be friendzoned.

She lied to you about her motives. You want to be friends with a liar who toyed with your emotions in that way?

Does someone so devious deserve you as a friend?

I don't think so...!

[gaudi]

I had been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. She told me that she could not be with me due to my religion and that she needed to go out with someone of the same religion so she instantly broke up with me.

 

Three weeks after the break up, i found out that she had been playing with two different guys of different religion to her.

 

I confronted her about this, and she admitted the truth to me.

 

Now, she says shes wants to be friends and leave it at that.

 

Also, recently i have been suffering from hair loss. I found out from my friend that behind my back she had been saying she really didnt like my hair loss.

 

So question for the ladies, should i consider surgery or does a bald head look appealing.

 

Also, to anyone, should i be friends with my ex, because in all honesty i forgive her and love her with all of my heart.

 

Thanks everyone.

 

 

She has given you a BS reason for a breakup and then proved it's BS by going and doing exactly the opposite.

 

Forget her, she is not for you. Once you are able to move on and look elsewhere for fulfilment in your life, I have no doubt you will find someone who loves you for who you are, hair loss doesn't matter mate.

 

You will find someone who wants to be with the person inside, regardless of what you look like.

[LovelyDaze]

I had been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. She told me that she could not be with me due to my religion and that she needed to go out with someone of the same religion so she instantly broke up with me.

 

Three weeks after the break up, i found out that she had been playing with two different guys of different religion to her.

 

I confronted her about this, and she admitted the truth to me.

 

Now, she says shes wants to be friends and leave it at that.

 

Also, recently i have been suffering from hair loss. I found out from my friend that behind my back she had been saying she really didnt like my hair loss.

 

So question for the ladies, should i consider surgery or does a bald head look appealing.

 

Also, to anyone, should i be friends with my ex, because in all honesty i forgive her and love her with all of my heart.

 

Thanks everyone.

 

 

I'm sorry if I am coming off as upset but...are you serious??

 

No, you don't need to consider surgery over some girl...hell, ANY GIRL.

 

And secondly, you can forgive her and that's awesome but buddy, you can not be friends with her...not now. You still love her right? Well, that's reason enough NOT to be her friend.

 

Two things you need to take inventory of: Do YOU like your hair? Why or why not? If you want to change for ANYONE else but yourself, then you are doing it wrong.

 

Next, we dumpees know that you can't be friends with an ex until you feel indifferent to them. What that means is, the only way you two can be friendly is if you could care less about getting back together or who she is dating.

Listen to TaraMaiden and gaudi( a couple of my favs on LS) they are giving it to you straight.

 

Go NC on this girl. She is a liar and a manipulator. You deserve much, much more than that.

[Feel so lost]

Hi,

 

Thanks for looking at my post.

 

Yeh, she was my first girlfriend, and my 'first lover' as well. Infact she was the first girl i ever fell in love with. Because i feel one love only. I was planning on getting married and the rest of it as well, children, we even talked about what names we were going to give our kids.

 

I feel heart broken that she left me for who i am. I honestly, put my living soul into our relationship, because thats the sort of guy i am.

 

Im 25, and really starting to lose my hair. My ex told her friend that she didnt like it. My ex always took the piss out of my hair loss saying that i look like a grandad with it. And to be honest, joking or not it really hurt me inside.

 

I feel like i have lost all confidence because of our breakup. And also i have also lost all confidence because of my hair loss.

 

I personally dont like it, because people, friend and family will look at me differently. Im embarrsed of the stigma of being bald.

 

But ladies, do you find a bald head attractive, because my ex certaintly didnt

[McGrupp]

be proactive and shave it bald. read "the game" by neil strauss. dude was balding and went onto become one of the biggest pickup artist in the world by shaving his head (well that wasnt all it, but it helped)

 

check him out: http://www.eseduce.com/wp-content/neil-strauss-before-and-after.jpg